Come hither wise mner's: Period vvv late and can't loose weight

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Thats it basically...

On approx day 44 of my monthly cycle Im not usually regular BUT its never later than 35/36 days esp recently.

I feel well and fine apart from a bit as to where af has dissapeared to...

Im also desperate to loose weight, been on ad's and stopped them about 2 weeks ago as we want to try for baby 3.. I seem to be heavier than ever and really struggling to loose weight.

I started slimming world last week and maintained...

Sooo..

1. Where is AF and surley it has to appear eventually..?

1. Why can't I loose weight..?

TIA X

FORGOT, On wed I did x2 pregnancy tests (long story) and both negative x

anyone..?