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My monthly cycle has now changed to 40 days plus . Is this my decline into infertlility?

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tingletangle · 23/12/2010 23:44

My cycle has always been 28 days. However out of the blue it has suddenly lengthened to over 40. Has this happened to anyone else? Will it go back or is this a slide into my ovaries going into retirement ?

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christmastimemistletoeandwine · 23/12/2010 23:50

sorry no advice but mine has also started this as well.will be watching with interest.

worried40 · 23/12/2010 23:54

i thought that your cycle shortening was a peri menopause sign.

A1980 · 24/12/2010 00:50

How old are you tingletangle?

tingletangle · 24/12/2010 10:13

37

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PlentyOfParsnips · 24/12/2010 12:28

It's possible, mine started slowing down when I was 36. IME, periods can do all sorts of weird things during the perimenopause. I've had longer than normal cycles, shorter than normal, breaks of several months then a few more regular ones, sometimes heavy, sometimes barely there ... I'm 41 now and having my second period this year, so it can take a very long time to stop altogether. Are you TTC? There's a blood test you can get to tell you if you're perimenopausal.

tingletangle · 24/12/2010 12:54

Yes we are TTC so this feels like some kind of divine retribution for following a career rather than having my children early.

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christmastimemistletoeandwine · 24/12/2010 16:41

we are also ttc but i am 30 so i hope it doesnt mean the begining of fertility going.

PlentyOfParsnips · 24/12/2010 18:19

:(

It's only a possibility - you could have years left yet with ok fertility. If you've been trying for a while, it might be worth getting the blood test but periods can change for all sorts of reasons, or seemingly no reason at all.

ReadingTeaLeaves · 25/12/2010 22:37

Could also be polycystic ovaries... I started getting really long cycles (of course when TTC - sod's law) and was diagnosed after a bunch of tests with PCOS. Fortunately conceived eventually after trying for about 18 months. Worth chatting to GP.

tingletangle · 25/12/2010 22:39

I am not sure I want to face the gp. God this is crap.

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colette · 25/12/2010 22:46

tingletangle - I don't think it is necessarily a bad sign my cycle was that long when I was in my teens and twenties and then got shorter. It could be a one off

tingletangle · 25/12/2010 23:48

This is the second month at 40 days plus. I have just checked my records ( I am not odd but we are TTC!) and the one before was 33 days, before that 30 and then 28 every month as far as I know.

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Nukins · 11/05/2018 00:01

tingletangle Thu 23-Dec-10 23:44:30. My cycle has always been 28 days. However out of the blue it has suddenly lengthened to over 40. Has this happened to anyone else? Will it go back or is this a slide into my ...

swingofthings · 11/05/2018 07:37

The stress of ttc can affect your cycles. It's typical, you stress about it because you want to be sure you understand it to increase your changes, but that then leads to your cycles being messed up through stress!

Do go and see your gp to test your fsh. If it's low, then you know you're most likely ok and maybe you can relax about charting things. If it's high, then you might want to consider doing another test which is supposed to be more reliable (can't remember the acronym), so that at least you know where you stand and you can consider the next steps.

S22 · 03/07/2024 07:05

I’m 32 years old, was normally 28 day cycle. Last few cycles have been off, 29,3026,32,35. Currently I’m waiting Ave stressing for this months to show up. I’m on day 35, not trying to conceit but still panicking !! What’s going on. I’m trying to calm myself down and put it down to I e started gym 3 months ago, I am nowhere near over doing it tho but go 3 times a week for about 45 mins. Doubt it’s that

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