My friends Dh has Pacreatic cancer and sencondary lung cancer :(

[magnolia74]

Is it hopeless??

Having almost lost my dad to cancer (in remission now!) I want to be there for her but am so scared she will ask me questions that I can't answer.

Everything I've read is not really positive if the cancer has spread

Anyone had family members similar?

My dad has similar and not good news i'm afraid. If you cant answers questions then dont you are not expected to know everything. Just try and remember the things that would have meant someting to you. Remember appts if she mentions them and check she is looking after herself. Just be there.

Thanks,

She has told the kids he's poorly but not to what extent. They are 10 and 5

Really want to be there for her just need to stop fucking blubbing

It is bound to bring back a lot of stuff for you too. Dont beat yourself up x