I wonder if someone can help me. After a 2 year abstinence of sex with my husband(stress, etcetc) we started to make love again a couple of months ago. After the 3rd time I bled and seeing as my smear was due I had this done and mentioned to the nurse about this. I also stated that I sometimes get abrown show before my period is due and sometimes after I have finished. She conducted the smear and stated that my cervix was very inflammed. My last smear test 3 years ago was normal. I stupidly googled all my symptoms and all are coming back as cervical cancer. I am out of my mind with worry. Would someone or lots of you please advice and perhaps tell me of your own stories to put my mind at rest. Many thanks Kim. P.s. I'm 43, had moderate abnormal changes to my cervix 14 years ago but it was successfully treated and have had normal smears since.