Hi I'm going out my head hear to see if I'm right or wrong. I have a very strained relationship with my adult son or went wrong when he met and married a girl who took drugs and heavy drinker I was against this from start it cause a big rift between family and that rift it byound repair thanks to my MIL she is a terrible person who blames me for everything thsy goes wrong in her life and just tells my husband and my other children about what I've done ect ect and they dont tell me they let me look stupid by running her around everywhere doing jobs while she is trying to turn my husband and kids against me it all came to a head last yr when I found all this out so I cut ties and my one young son and I kept well away from her out other 3 grown up kids still kept in touch with her gods know who shes never been an active nan In there lives never comes to see then xmas birthdays ect ect now I've just found out my husband and grown up son took money off her for my young son for Christmas after I cut ties with her and I'm told I'm the bad one for it I feel as though I cant trust anyone I live with