Whilst I was 7 months pregnant, back in April and just a few weeks after losing my dear Mother, I discovered my partner was having a dalliance with another woman. I had my suspicions since January, but he lied through his teeth. Anyway, through my stalkerish investigations and his general demeanour, I found out he'd been romancing this woman, buying her gifts including jewellery, although he swears there was never any physical contact between them.
We went for Relate counselling, which was futile as he refused to open up and give me any reasonable answers to my questions and even accused the counsellor and me of ganging up on him. I have this desperate need to know what really happened and all the details, but have been unable to know how, why, when and where. I cannot move on until I know the true nature of their relationship.
Anyway, he is on the O2 network and whilst he was upstairs without his phone, I signed him up to Bluebook, a service provided by O2, which stores text messages and photos online. I'm not sure if he is aware of what I've don't but I don't care if he knows anyway.
Getting to the point now. Does anyone know if it is possible to retrieve older text messages, which have been deleted through Bluebook? I've considered buying gadgets which claim to be able to retrieve deleted texts, but I doubt they really work and as I don't know anyone in MI5, I probably can't do it. Any suggestions (apart from seeking Psychiatric help) would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks