Vilfoot: we have all been there with gardens and plots. It feels overwhelming. But you can do this! And you don't have to do it all at once (this is a recipe for exhaustion). Just a bit of work each week over the winter, which will be here soon, will sort it all out ready for next spring. We are all here to hold your hand! Sometimes the worst bit is oddly not the doing but the feelings before you start.
You are not the only one with rasp problems. My autumn ones need to come out too. Pathetic harvest with tiny tiny berries suggests some kind of virus. My fruit cage is too full anyway so it needs sorting out.
This summer, encouraged by this thread, I made jam for the first time. I have discovered that I love doing it!! So I am growing loads more fruit next year. I hope to have 3 rhubarb crowns, 1 kiwi vine, 2 blackcurrants, 2 redcurrants, 2 whitecurrants, rasps and strawberries and my 10 or so espalier apples (which I really need to get on top of, they are a right mess). What am I missing fruit wise?? There must be loads of lovely berries I haven't got or even heard of!!