Oh, sunflower competition sounds great idea. My two (8 and 6) love coming in the garden with me, watering the plants ( have to be careful as they tend to drown things), randomly "helping" by sweeping/raking/ digging. Got them some pretty sturdy children size tools in Aldi last year.
I have to say I prefer gardening on my own, though. I am viewing it as much needed exercise, which will have the side effect of fixing the garden. Kind of mindfulness too. Listening to nature sounds ( or alternatively catching up on Archers podcasts.
Doreen, that is brilliant advice - I had no idea I could shred the brambles, thought any tiny remnant would sprout again. I presume they won't be thorny post-shredding? Think DH was looking forward to a burn-up though...! The lazy bed technique is genius, and so much less work. Will start tomorrow.
Where do you reckon I get get big pieces of cardboard - maybe Aldi again?
I have bought a choiysia, philadelphus, and couple of hebes today as we have no shrubs in garden apart from a few random roses which need pruning. Am planning to make a small area clean and tidy with scented plants (in pots?). Will be having barbecue for my birthday end of July, and am looking for sturdy garden table and chairs this weekend. Definitely need wood as garden incredibly windy - cheap plastic chairs used to be blown everywhere. Have put them in the greenhouse now to make a nice place to sit with my cup of tea.
Also bought herbs which I didn't need, but hope to propagate - purple sage, camomile treneague ( although think a camomile lawn optimistic on our clay) and a very low growing thyme, which I might encourage to grow in between paving slabs. Will save me scraping grass and weeds out of the cracks instead. I have a Corsican mint which has just held on since last year in a pot, might try with that too as smells so strong.