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Year 13 -2025/26 - Support, discussion and looking after each other (new thread from y12)

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scandinavianyellow · 17/09/2025 20:53

Hello
I have started a new thread following on from this one
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/further_education/5340007-year-12-202425-support-discussion-and-looking-after-each-other-thread-2?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

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bluefineliner · 15/12/2025 07:12

@JessyCarr oh dear I'm so sorry your DD is back in hospital, hope she improves quickly, is she due to stay in for long do you know?

DD still has this week at school, breaks up Friday. I think she may be heading towards tonsillitis again so thankfully we are almost at the end of term!

She (we) have had such a busy/stressy week I am not surprised she is run down tbh. Driving test, med interview and we have just returned from a weekend in London where she was asked to take part in some filming related to her tiktok study account (out of the blue fun opportunity). It has been a wonderful week for her, London was very pretty but my goodness so so busy. I expected it to be but Oxford Street was horrendous! Now I finally have time to finish my Christmas shopping, which I have barely started 😬.

With mocks starting early January I see this break as a revision heavy one but this is y13 after all 😂.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 15/12/2025 15:50

Glad to hear he's doing so well @Ventress , DS also has his mocks as soon as they're back in January.

KellySeveride · 16/12/2025 17:46

@JessyCarr any update on your DD? How is she doing?

Well despite the fact I have had this raging virus that is doing the rounds I do have some good news. DS has already had his first offer from Bristol so he’s pleased someone wants him 😃.

JessyCarr · 16/12/2025 19:08

@KellySeveride Congratulations to your DS on a great first offer, and thanks for asking after DD. She had to have surgery yesterday to remove the clot, but is now home and snuggling with the cat. She will be fine from here I think. Fortunately we’re not travelling for Christmas (hosting here) and even more fortunately mocks are in Feb rather than Jan!

KellySeveride · 16/12/2025 20:12

Thank god she’s home and on the road to recovery. Snuggling with the cat seems like a good way to help heal 😆.

wonderstuff · 16/12/2025 21:37

@JessyCarr sp glad she’s home.

DD has had a couple more offers, contextual offer from Reading, which we weren’t expecting, we think it must be under disability as she declared dyslexia, we don’t live in an area that would be considered deprived. She also got an unconditional offer from Brighton, which I think is her preferred insurance place, she needs to go back and look at the course content I think. Just waiting for Liverpool and Southampton.

GirlsInGreen · 16/12/2025 23:03

@JessyCarr wonderful news - so glad she home and snuggling the cat😻

temperedolive · 17/12/2025 05:12

@JessyCarr Very pleased to hear your DD is home and recovering. Such a scary event!

We've just come bavk from Framce, so DC2 could meet a family who offered her a gap year au pair position and see the accommodation they provide. The other DC and I went off on our own so she could negotiate things as a professional but on the last evening they invited us to join them for dinner and they seem like a lovely family. She was offered a similar position in Canada as well, but having met this family in person she's decided to go with them.

I was very impressed listening to her chatter in French with the three little boys and their parents and just conduct herself so graciously. Somehow, she really is grown up enough to live abroad without me for a year!

hels71 · 17/12/2025 17:12

@JessyCarr , hope your daughter is continuing to get better xx
DD got an offer from her first choice today of 64 UCAS points. She is very excited! Hopefully she will now be much less grumpy! She worked out that an A* in maths and a merit in grade 6 musical theatre singing will do it!!

Ventress · 18/12/2025 17:54

Thank you @JustHereWithMyPopcornGood luck for your DS for those January mocks. DS says he’s finishing tomorrow and taking the whole weekend to sleep!

Thats great @KellySeveride- well done to your son on the Bristol offer! Getting that first offer makes them feel so much more comfortable doesn’t it?

I’m so pleased your daughter is home now @JessyCarr💐 and will have a good period to rest and recuperate before going back to school.

Great offers @wonderstuff!

Well done to your daughter @temperedolive on the job offers for her gap year.

Yay @hels71- well done on the offer from your daughter’s preferred university!

No more offers for DS yet. Waiting on Durham and UCL. I’m also trying to extol the virtues of Warwick (as he has an offer there) but he seems totally averse to it purely because it’s not in a beautiful part of the country 🙄 very frustrating.

KellySeveride · 18/12/2025 21:33

And a second offer this evening from Exeter which is his insurance choice.

@Ventress Warwick-not beautiful? It’s a lovely little city and there’s lots of old there. I do love the way he’s making his choices though. Mine has been far too practical-do I like the course and could I get away with living at home. Some of them he couldn’t live at home but he has picked his preferences based on distance 🤣.

wonderstuff · 18/12/2025 21:59

Thought I’d just share a conversation with my 18 year old
’Can you buy me a cocktail can for the party tomorrow?’
’You know you can buy alcohol yourself now?’
’Yeah but then I’d have to pay for it?’

gingercat02 · 18/12/2025 23:22

wonderstuff · 18/12/2025 21:59

Thought I’d just share a conversation with my 18 year old
’Can you buy me a cocktail can for the party tomorrow?’
’You know you can buy alcohol yourself now?’
’Yeah but then I’d have to pay for it?’

That's perfect 👌

bluefineliner · 19/12/2025 07:08

@JessyCarr so pleased your DD is home and recovering now (a cat is the perfect rehab support).

@KellySeveride well done on the offers for your DS.

@Ventress if my DD could have chosen her unis more broadly I think she would have used criteria such as your DS has!

@wonderstuff well done on the offers so far, DD just got an interview for med at Liverpool this week. Great comment about buying alcohol, mine is not quite 18 but I am sure will be the same once she can legally buy it!

@temperedolive amazing opportunity for your DD for her gap year, she must be so independent to attempt it.

@hels71 well done on the offers too.

So last half day at school this term for DD with her 'winter ball' tonight. The past few weeks have been chaotic but very positive so far. DD has now got all 4 med interviews she applied for and has done one. The other 3 are Jan and early Feb along with her mocks early Jan too. Now her driving test is passed that is one less stress for her to deal with so back to the mock revision and interview prep after a little Christmas break. Hope you all have some rest over the coming weeks too, being a parent of a Y13 is very demanding 😂.

Ventress · 19/12/2025 08:46

Warwick itself is lovely @KellySeveridebut Warwick university is in a large expanse of nowhere outside Coventry, which isn’t as attractive. He is also very taken with the idea of being part of history, which is a big part of the UCL pitch. My hopes are pinning on UCL now as Durham is just so far away. He has an offer from Exeter too which he hopes will be his insurance choice.

I love the conversation with your daughter @wonderstuff😂 DS had his winter ball last weekend and looked very smart in his dinner suit.

@bluefinelinerour friend’s daughter is just finishing her first term at York/Hull. She has been very busy but hasn’t regretted choosing medicine. I hope those remaining interviews go well 🤞

Fabfabfab · 19/12/2025 09:24

Ventress · 19/12/2025 08:46

Warwick itself is lovely @KellySeveridebut Warwick university is in a large expanse of nowhere outside Coventry, which isn’t as attractive. He is also very taken with the idea of being part of history, which is a big part of the UCL pitch. My hopes are pinning on UCL now as Durham is just so far away. He has an offer from Exeter too which he hopes will be his insurance choice.

I love the conversation with your daughter @wonderstuff😂 DS had his winter ball last weekend and looked very smart in his dinner suit.

@bluefinelinerour friend’s daughter is just finishing her first term at York/Hull. She has been very busy but hasn’t regretted choosing medicine. I hope those remaining interviews go well 🤞

My DC is also thinking of putting Exeter as insurance (really liked it at open day) but have heard that student accommodation was a nightmare this year and even those who firmed it didn't necessarily end up in Uni halls. Therefore it seems very likely that if it's an insurance choice they will end up in private accommodation somewhere. It's therefore putting us off putting it down as insurance, although not decided yet.

temperedolive · 20/12/2025 09:06

wonderstuff · 18/12/2025 21:59

Thought I’d just share a conversation with my 18 year old
’Can you buy me a cocktail can for the party tomorrow?’
’You know you can buy alcohol yourself now?’
’Yeah but then I’d have to pay for it?’

All the respect in the world. This YP is going to be absolutely fine in life.

Ventress · 20/12/2025 09:17

I think student accommodation this year was very difficult at several universities @FabfabfabThese RG universities offered way more spaces than usual.

Warwick were/are also affected. Plus they had the recent fire in one of the Arthur Vick buildings and had to move everyone out.

I think there will be more use of private student buildings in future. These tend to be more expensive unfortunately, and some are much further out.

It’s another reason I’m hoping DS gets a UCL offer as then he can live at home and commute if he doesn’t get accommodation. It’s a difficult situation.

Fabfabfab · 20/12/2025 09:28

Ventress · 20/12/2025 09:17

I think student accommodation this year was very difficult at several universities @FabfabfabThese RG universities offered way more spaces than usual.

Warwick were/are also affected. Plus they had the recent fire in one of the Arthur Vick buildings and had to move everyone out.

I think there will be more use of private student buildings in future. These tend to be more expensive unfortunately, and some are much further out.

It’s another reason I’m hoping DS gets a UCL offer as then he can live at home and commute if he doesn’t get accommodation. It’s a difficult situation.

Yes heard about Warwick and that seemed even worse as students ended up in Coventry whereas at least Exeter Uni is near the main town (and a lovely place - although I’ve never been to Coventry so can’t comment on what it’s like). Would it put your DC off any of those Universities as insurance though? DC is considering York as an option instead although not ruled out Exeter yet. Hasn’t actually had an offer from Exeter yet either despite PGs being quite a bit higher than what they ask for

Ventress · 20/12/2025 09:59

I’m sure the offer from Exeter will arrive soon @Fabfabfab

warwick have a bus station on campus and run buses to all the local towns - Leamington, Coventry , etc. The students we spoke to on the open day tended to live in Leamington rather than Coventry. In my opinion Coventry is a city and has good bits and not so nice bits just as any city does.

DS’ current plan is either Durham or UCL (assuming he gets an offer) and Exeter as insurance. He’s also talking about a gap year and applying grades in hand if he doesn’t get an offer from one of his favourites. I’m staying out of it!

York is lovely. Either Exeter or York would be a great insurance choice. What is your child’s top choice?

Fabfabfab · 20/12/2025 10:08

Ventress · 20/12/2025 09:59

I’m sure the offer from Exeter will arrive soon @Fabfabfab

warwick have a bus station on campus and run buses to all the local towns - Leamington, Coventry , etc. The students we spoke to on the open day tended to live in Leamington rather than Coventry. In my opinion Coventry is a city and has good bits and not so nice bits just as any city does.

DS’ current plan is either Durham or UCL (assuming he gets an offer) and Exeter as insurance. He’s also talking about a gap year and applying grades in hand if he doesn’t get an offer from one of his favourites. I’m staying out of it!

York is lovely. Either Exeter or York would be a great insurance choice. What is your child’s top choice?

Yes not worried, just ironic as Exeter asks for the lowest PGs! Top choices are either Durham or Bristol. Insurance either Exeter or York (probably prefers Exeter but just not sure about how tricky the accommodation situation will be). So far offers from Bristol and York. What about your DC?

Ventress · 20/12/2025 10:17

I get the impression they offer in batches, but what do I know!?

DS has offers from Exeter and Warwick. Had an Oxford interview but thought it went really badly so has written it off and moved to Durham and UCL as first choices. Waiting on offers from these two which I assume will be after Christmas break now before he finds out either way.

Great to have that Bristol offer if it’s a favourite.

DS hated Bristol when we went to the open day and didn’t list it as one of his 5. he is rather strange about first impressions. I wish he would be more logical.

JessyCarr · 20/12/2025 10:35

@FabfabfabWe have been thinking about the Exeter accommodation position too, as it’s a possible insurance for DD. We really liked it when we visited. Neighbour’s DD is a first-year there and currently home for Christmas. She is in private halls, but very happy and settled and full of how wonderful it is.

It is clear that Exeter experienced a real pinch point on accommodation for the current first-years. They are building new accommodation on the Streatham campus but it’s not going to be ready for the 2026 intake. In order to do that they had to demolish some older halls on campus. At the same time they received 23% more firm acceptances for 2025 than they did for 2024 (source: University of Exeter Council minutes). This meant that there was little or nothing left for insurance applicants after those who had firmed had been made an accommodation offer. The university honoured its accommodation promise to all those coming who had firmed, but had to go into partnership with private providers in order to do so. Thus not everyone who had firmed is spending their first year on campus.

The good news is that there is ample student accommodation in the city of Exeter if you include private halls. It’s a one-university city, so halls are not competed for by other universities. It is a small city, so nothing is too far away from campus. Compare e.g. Manchester, which has been known recently to offer students £1,000 to live in Preston.

The bad news (and this applies across the sector) is that private purpose-built halls are less likely than university-owned halls to offer a significant range of price points. If they do, the choice may be between expensive and even more expensive. This may well become an even more acute problem in many university cities in 2nd year and beyond, as the Renters Rights Act drives HMO landlords out of the market and the owners of purpose-built halls (exempt from the provisions of the Act) cash in.

JessyCarr · 20/12/2025 10:39

LOL @Ventress - DD loathed Bristol when we visited friends there a few years ago, and announced she was never going to apply there! In the end they didn’t do the course she settled on.

Been thinking of you and hope you are doing well this Christmas.

SilverBlue56 · 20/12/2025 10:45

JessyCarr · 20/12/2025 10:39

LOL @Ventress - DD loathed Bristol when we visited friends there a few years ago, and announced she was never going to apply there! In the end they didn’t do the course she settled on.

Been thinking of you and hope you are doing well this Christmas.

My son doesn't like it either and he goes to school 5 mins away and we live here! He didn't apply even though he would have got a local student guaranteed offer (not sure if they promise to offer on what you apply for though eg would he have got an aero offer or something similar). He said he's sick of the city centre and wants to live on a campus. Also the hills. I can't say I blame him.