what are our rights we have 2 children 3 years and 7wks and are living in mq's. Dh's ressettlement started over a month ago but he has been at sea for the last 5 mths and wont be home til next week. So he hasnt even had a chance to look at jobs, sort out courses etc never mind where we are going to live.Its just rediculous that expect you you to do it whilst your away hes been in for 9 years and this the help we get.