Hey all ... i am at a total loss with my serving partner ... we have 6 kiddies together and iwork 20 hours the trouble is he is just so so selfish 🙄 told me last night he is on a course as of today ! So i got 12 hours notice to sort childcare for all the kids while i work he has known about this course since dec !! Its not the first time he has done this it seems that he has no regard for me and the children just does what ever he wants is it a military man thing ?