hubby is of 2 barhain for four months help!!!!!!

[samandtomsmum]

hi
my hubby is in the raf wasnt due to go until march and they rang friday just before we were due to go on hoilday and said we have to cut our hols short and he is flying out mon everything is a bad rush,but not sure how to handle it with the children one is 2 and the other 4 both daddy boys and away christmasand got no family here either sorry to babble on just thought someone might help!x

My dh travels extensively and has been away on and off ever since March (I was pg 6 months). Since then he was here in June for the birth but was away for most of the summer, just at home for odd week-ends.

You and your boys will adjust to his absence. This is both essential and problematic as you get used to coping with everything by yourself (and then when he comes home you start thinking "so who are you to upset all my routines and get in my way" sad )

Find somewhere to spend Xmas, either with your family or your in-laws so that the boys get the full heaps of pressies and too much to eat experience!

thanx for your advicex

hiya my hubby has just flown out to bahrain over the wkend to meet his ship they are on patrol down the gulf. He will also be away til feb and away for xmas so if you need to chat please pm me.I also have a little boy called Sam plus another on the way so know it isnt easy. Take care xx

hi rosebud thanx for that my hubby has just gone tonite my email address is [email protected] that would be great to chatx