my oh is in the navy and is constantly away and hates it. The navy also treat the families like crap.He is thinking of transferring to the Raf as he has heard they hardly go away and if they do its not for a very time. Im a bit dubious of this and dont want him to transfer and for us to move away from family and friends only for it to be even worse.He could leave the navy now but we are worrried about losing our m/q not mention the pay. So honest opinions please.....