Hello,
@ThisisSparta told me about this page. Thank you very much.
To make a long story short, my husband is ex mil and has ptsd and yesterday he shared with me he wanted to be a monkey, because as a human being everybod expects him to do well as work and he thinks he cannot lead the civvies at his workplace, he thinks he was not born to lead them and he is very sad and fears he might have a nervous breakdown and might hurt himself then.
Unfortunately it is not the first time he told me.
He has several problems. Problem number one he gained weight and then he lost some weight and unfortunately gained some weight again, which he found out Friday and was so unhappy. Is this the right place to ask for a recipe? Well, I am not sure, but would it okay to start a thread because I think a lot of people have trouble adjusting their calcify intake when they leave the military, don‘t they.
However he feels fat and unfit and it makes him feel very bad about himself.
Problem number two: his job, people are never on time, do not do as they are told, as herding cats.
Problem Number three: Still searching for a hobby as a family, he spends too much time watching TV and drinking beer and I join in (not drinking beer, but watching TV) but do not like it... and I think it is not good for his mental health.
Thanks a lot.