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Forces sweethearts

If you have a family member in the Royal Navy, RAF or army, find support from other Mumsnetters here.

I'm stirring it a bit but have you seen?.......

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vintageteacups · 28/02/2011 18:58

I know I'm being a bit naughty but there's a current thread on AIBU about whether forces personnel should be allowed to go into fast track teaching degree ahead of civvies.

Gosh - some people have a very unrealistic view of what serving personnel are like!

here

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scaryteacher · 28/02/2011 23:58

You're the only thing that's getting tired and dull VS.

BuongiornoPrincipessa · 01/03/2011 08:09

I posted earlier in the thread but now I am just too -dim- annoyed to post again.

I am not dim, neither is DH a thug
I am not isolated and DH (despite several hot 'n' sandy detachments) is not going to flip
DH would make a great teacher, but it doesn't pay as well so we're staying put for now

Think some people base their military 'knowledge' on movies and soldier soldier Grin

SnapFrakkleAndPop · 01/03/2011 08:15

I was very tempted to point out on the dim Forces wife comment that many Forces wives are.....teachers Grin

vintageteacups · 01/03/2011 08:47

To be fair Buongiorno, on meeting Dh 13 years ago and him telling me he was a captain,I asked which character that resembled on Soldier SoldierGrin.

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BuongiornoPrincipessa · 01/03/2011 12:46
Grin

Thing is I'm guilty of having held some of those negative stereotypes of military peeps as my parents are total hippies (and teachers!) who were Hmm about me marrying a serviceman but these were overturned by my experience. Now I have the greatest respect for them, and their values/ concept of duty are something that we lack somewhat in society, I feel.

madwomanintheattic · 02/03/2011 05:12

Grin well, scary, army officers are only allowed to marry nurses or teachers, aren't they?

i'm not quite sure if i'm dim or a thug now. but i only got to page 14. i got ignorance fatigue after that. i was coping with the military bashing, but army wives dim? only as much as any other cross section of the general public, but possibly 'bigoted' was over-represented on that thread.

fwiw, after leaving the military i did ta/ lsa for a while whilst doing my msc (was sort of pondering the possibility of gtp, but realised it would be the 'easy' option)... i don't remember mentioning my glorious fighting career at all in the classroom... in fact, most people seem to struggle with the concept that i spent 16 years in uniform. in charge. if it comes up i get all sorts of 'is she hallucinating again?' looks. people smiling sympathetically. etc.

i do have a history of wondering about teaching though. i did start a 4yr qts at warwick once upon a long ago (english and pe, don't ask) but the ethos wasn't right. (obviously not enough killing Hmm) i left the course and joined up. i thought i ought to pop back when i left Grin and see whether the time was right, but it appears not. nothing to do with the timing after all, just tis not me. still fascinated by education, like. but more as a concept than in a practitioner sort of way Wink

not nearly as fascinated as i am by society's misconceptions of the military though.

ooo, btw, did we manage to cover in the last 7 pages whether male military spouses were dim too? or does the fact that they have a penis over-rule any lack of brain power caused by marrying a female service-person? just curious.

madwomanintheattic · 02/03/2011 05:13

oh, blimey, not scary, snap!

MrsSnaplegs · 02/03/2011 05:47

Madwoman - not sure whether dh is dim will check in the morning when he's up Grin he is ex army though so where does he fit in - should that make him scary as well ! Very confusing for the poor man!
When he left the army he was teaching for a while, post 16 public services course at local college - we decided it was better for him to stay at home with dd and "support" my career as he hated it, got very frustrated by the lack of organization and support from head of dept and low intellectual capacity of majority of students. Most only signed up for the course as they saw it as an easy option to get ema for a couple of years. I have to agree having seen some of their efforts in homework my 5 yr old could do better. He was only earning enough to pay Childcare so we said what's the point when he could be at home with dd before she was in ft education. As it is now he now has ds to look after as well.
Interestingly he worked there with an ex copper and he left with stress, pupils must be bad if he couldn't cope!!

madwomanintheattic · 02/03/2011 06:08

oh, do check with him mrss. he's in the same position as i am, pretty much. Grin

i limit my educational tinkering now to being a school governor. as i was one of 3 that recruited the last ht, it has sated my megalomaniac tendencies for the time being... Grin

i've just read the rest of that thread. i can't post on it. how do you tell a woman who identifies as a 'foreign national whose birthright is being eroded by the british army' that she might be biased? i have plenty of issues with the british military as an institution , and some issues with individuals Grin but it must be impossible to look dispassionately at any military force when you have been brought up to recognise them as the 'enemy'. Sad

gah.

scaryteacher · 02/03/2011 09:59

I tried to point out she might be biased as politely as I could without actually saying so.

Got bored and went to cook dinner and then to bed last night, so haven't looked at the thread since my last post.

Am about to have large mug of tea and wade in again - well, it beats doing the ironing!

vintageteacups · 02/03/2011 10:10

I've given up - I feel happy with LDN's last post I read that said she'll agree to disagree and will be joining the protestors in March about the cuts Hmm

I am working today so am going to leave the thread.............for now Grin

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scaryteacher · 02/03/2011 11:58

MWITA - have now told her she's biased and needs to check her facts before posting.

Sidge · 02/03/2011 13:58

That thread is an online equivalent of banging my head repeatedly against a hard surface.

I gave up posting after a while as I couldn't be bothered any more. Responding to people basing their opinions of the Army (of course the RN, RM and RAF don't exist) on their dad's basic training 40 odd years ago just made me realise how futile it was.

Funnily enough I was in the Navy and never killed anyone! I did save a few lives though. I managed not to get killed either which was quite good going as Pompey at night is a scary place. Grin

I missed the Panorama prog (Sky Plussed it though despite my dimness as a Navy wife) as I was busy watching Royal Navy Caribbean Patrol; watching all those mindless bullyboy thugs co-ordinate an effort to help Caribbean islanders affected by a serious hurricane...

Barbieissick · 02/03/2011 17:00

Oh God I dare not look.

I still have my knickers in a twist about a thread on MSE some time ago where I was shocked to find that a lot of people seem to think that us military families have it easy what with our rent free housing, our spouses tax free salaries,free child care and a life where apparently we just dont realise how good we have it.

vintageteacups · 02/03/2011 17:34

I have to say, even my mother thought our quarter was completely free! She was shocked when I told her how much it actually was.

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McDreamy · 02/03/2011 17:36

I couldn't continue posting on that thread (but I haven't stopped reading it Wink). Surely VS isn't for real? Hmm

vintageteacups · 02/03/2011 17:38

Mcdreamy - out of interest, are you a midwife?

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McDreamy · 02/03/2011 17:39

No I'm a nurse - why do you ask? Smile

vintageteacups · 02/03/2011 17:40

From the Csection thread earlier. I saw your post and thought you sounded like a midwife or nurse.

I love how you so quickly and easily change your NN by the way Grin. I can never think of any more interesting ones to create from mine.

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McDreamy · 02/03/2011 17:45

Ah just had a quick search, that's DrMcDreamy, different poster similar name, not me Smile (Thought for a moment I had been on here for so long I couldn't even remember the threads I had been on Grin)

vintageteacups · 02/03/2011 17:48

Oh - how strange they've more or less stolen your name Hmm

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mpsw · 02/03/2011 17:50

McDreamy: as recommended midway through the other thread, check "her" profile. I think it's an ArRSer being naughty....

McDreamy · 02/03/2011 18:24

Hmm should I name change?

McDreamy · 02/03/2011 18:47

I can't find that but mpsw

McDreamy · 02/03/2011 18:47

That bit

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