My DS2 although would eat things like raisins and fruit all day and never fill I have recently started to cut out mid meal snacking as all he was eating was my spag bol and yoghurts at meal times! Tried everything... even good old fish fingers and chicken dippers! (100% breast meat!!! ) You understand! Know he is not wasting away! But what do you do when he refuses a meal? Provide an alternative or will this just give the message he can get what he wants if he kicks up a fuss! I would never force my children to eat what they don't like but he won't try anything. Has anyone got any tips or advice please? She says as she bins another unsuccessful tea!