My son is 2 1/2 years old, and was weaned on mostly jars. I had a lot of trouble getting him to eat lumpy food as he would gag, or refuse to eat it, so I ended up giving him what I know he would eat. He is better now but still not completely off jars. He eats weetabix, toast, pasta, breadsticks etc, but will not eat anything that would be on a childrens menu when we go out. He will not even try fishfingers, chips, sausages, pizza, beans etc. What should I do? I have tried giving him these foods - leaving it in front of him for 20 mins then taking it away. He wont even try it! I then usually end up giving him something else like a yoghurt just so that he has had something which I know is probably wrong, but he is already small for his age & im trying to get him to catch up. Should I abondon jars & be tough?