my ds is 10m and he's not really gaining any weight either - the HV said she thought this was because he was so active! (She just watched the wrestling match we call "changing the nappy" , and he is cruising now.) He eats like this:
bf around 5 or 6am
brekky around 8am - 1 weetabix or baby muesli. occasional bit of fruit.
anywhere between 10 and 11:30 - another bf (or not)
lunch around 12-1ish - pasta and baked beans; avocado; dhal (lentils and veg); bit of fruit. something like that.
may have a snack around 3 - rice cakes w/ hommous, biscuit , bit of cheese.
usually bfs around 4:30.
dinner somewhere around 6pm
last night was lentils, veg and mashed potato; cheesy bread; cold roast veg; bit of smoked mackerel. fruit. something like that.
ds feeds himself most of this but is often too tired/cranky for a proper dinner. He has no interest in toast and he usually just doesn't want brekky - dunno what that's all about as I wake up starving!
dunno know what rebelmum means about not giving these foods to developing digestion - see babyledweaning.com for recipes, chat, advice, etc.
Or start a thread yoo-hooing Aitch, she'll come and advise.