Recently on holiday with IL's, SIL & me were talking about what my DS eats and what her granddaughter eats and I told her that I wouldn't give my DS some of the stuff that was being given to her daughter. Well, they stayed for 2 days before our holiday and noticed that DS doesn't really eat alot. Doing the shop at the beginning of the holiday, she suggested several foods full of additives. I joked and said 'do you know JUST how many E nos in that stuff' and she just sort of laughed. When we got to the Pot noodle aisle, she asked if DS ate them. I said 'fark off no ' and she said 'well if you gave him a bit more crap he might start eating'. I am by no means a food snob. He eats sausage rolls and on ocasion McDonalds, crisps biscuits etc. But I am now wondering whether I am doing it all wrong as I make healthy dinners from scratch and don't give him processed food. He is very thin, will forgo dinner or lunch if he doesn't want it and I am seeing a paed on the 7th June.... Well??