I'm definitely off, Won't namechange, just going to go.

[Fenton]

Not attention seeking, just thought I'd clear off in the proper way,

I've had some amazing things happen since I've been here, good solid friends, life changing things , which I will always be grateful for.

I don't think I'm sensitive flower, I've always been more concerned about upsetting other people than worried for my own feelings.

Having my opinions and viewpoints pulled apart or mocked I can withstand, but to be belittled by people I feel I have chatted over sometime now actually hurts my feelings, - so, after sobbing into my cocoa for the past hour I know it's time to go.

It's surprising the things that finally make you flounce, innit?

North bunny? Arf. Norty bunny!

Wassup Hullybobs?

Fenton, no! You won't know me but I like you.

If it doesn't matter why ask "who" I am?

Anyhoo, I'm off to sulk about her departure as I'm more than a bit pissed off.

Plus. I could barely leave the house for about three years. If life makes real life friendships and interaction difficult should we just be isolated?
The 'well I have real life friends' is pretty unpleasant when you think about it

I asked because I thought I might know you. Thought you might be a NCer. Don't worry, I'll never speak to you again.

Pinot - I am at the bottom of the garden eating worms.

Fenton,

Now young lady, this is just NOT GOOD ENOUGH. You do NOT give in to moody, mardy, sarky, bichy or nasty fuckers. You take a deep breath, grit your teeth, SMILE, and casually ignore them. You certainly don't let them affect you, nor your relationship with the sane members of this site.

You maybe take a break, but you do not de-reg as side bollocks are soooo last year.

(Did it work? I am feeling like a middle-aged 1940s headmistress as I have to wear my glasses today. Seems to be influencing my whole persona)

Hully

Phil is upset, leave her be.

I am all calm and zen. Sgreat.

I am at a Turning Point

trying to work out what to do.

at north bunny. I thought you were trying to track me down geographically.

WHY is Phil upset??

I thought I hadn't seen you around Pinot hope you're ok.

Fwiw toally I don't know anyone on here, not part of any quiches or anything like that (except for a few of us fatties supporting each other in shedding a bit of blubber) but I don't live in a bubble.

I recognise names, posters become familiar. I get to know which people I share a sense of humour with. I get to know who's opinions I respect, and equally those who's opinions I may not agree with but who express them well.

I also massively disagree with the "words on a screen" analogy. They are words, simple as that. They mean the same regardless of whether the are written or spoken. They are written by real people and read by real people.

Hello Chief

Hully just fecking explain yourself woman

this would make me VERY SAD INDEED :( :( :( :(
I found one of the most valuable and precious people in my RL world on MN,a nd that person is FENTON
If she is 'hounded' (haha) out of here I will be CROSS

WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS?
BRING THEM TO SEE ME

Norks you never shout!

No, I'll bore myself and you lot to death. I'll work it out.

But thanks.

Crikey Phil, was just being friendly .

Apparently not allowed any more?

and for young Hully.

Hully, I like you even though I don't think you'll know me, and I hope things are OK/turn out OK.

And tell us. Gwan gwan gwan.

Just kidding mostly

Pinot - why has Phil gone all prickly and odd at people being friendly then

Of course I know you LadyClarice.

I'll just say that everyone is an arse and you can't rely on anyone and it's all very disappointing. But there you are.