I'm definitely off, Won't namechange, just going to go.

[Fenton]

Not attention seeking, just thought I'd clear off in the proper way,

I've had some amazing things happen since I've been here, good solid friends, life changing things , which I will always be grateful for.

I don't think I'm sensitive flower, I've always been more concerned about upsetting other people than worried for my own feelings.

Having my opinions and viewpoints pulled apart or mocked I can withstand, but to be belittled by people I feel I have chatted over sometime now actually hurts my feelings, - so, after sobbing into my cocoa for the past hour I know it's time to go.

It's surprising the things that finally make you flounce, innit?

Hi Fenton

I hope you come back when you are ready

Doctrine

I can't read all of this because I'm supposed to be coastgurding the coast.
It would be nice if you don't go.

This is driving me to distraction. Suppose I should step away and go and feed my children or summat.

Just popped on to add to the Fenton Respect, I always like to see your name on a thread Fenton.

See I am a bit at the 'clues in her post' thing. I think Fenton just wrote a post without attempting any Agatha Christie plot lines.
I thought it was the train but I think I can see why people might think its the site stuff...stuff.
But I don't know and I don't think Fenton wanted it to be dissected. A first reaction to her post is understandably 'bloody hell, what's up' and 'was it x or y' but ultimately she may not want to say and I am not sure how us randomly assembled posters working it out helps.

Hopefully she will feel better and come back.

Amen

Quite, Pag.

Just one last thing, please, please don't anyone go getting all paranoid and fighty

I am not on MN FB or any FB (or haven't been for a very long time and even then I wasn't really into it) - there's no behind the scenes nasties - nothing sinister, I honestly didn't leave any clues, just a trail of biscuits to find my way back.

You're going to make me say it, .....It's not you, it's ME.

And what Pag said - some things don't change^

Oh god sorry about the facebook references. I was just musing aloud. I wasn't accusing anyone of facebook shite.

I haven't a clue what's going on and would just prefer if fenton would stay that's all.

Snide Papas sounds like a really good name for a blues bar.

No, no, no, TSC. Sorry if it reads that way. I just meant the the outbreak of GF over the past few weeks leaves posters feeling suspicious and paranoid.

TSC why come on twice and say people know things and are being disingenuous? Can't you see how unpleasant that is and how bad it makes everyoen feel?

If you have something to say, just say it.

We are all adults ffs. Not 12.

What knives? And what Snide Papas? Do you mean this sort of thing?

"I know for a fact believe someone on here knows full well why Fenton is acively upset, yet is pretending she doesn't and by commenting is adding to the 'hmm, I suspect I know something but hmm, are there clues as to why Fenton is upset?' on here.

No idea why- perhaps she's seeking pm's so she can have a right good stir behind the scenes. "

Phew. I panicked for a moment there. My faith in humanity is restored.

Epic fail in the form of a cross-post! I'm going to stay out of this now.

Fenton, hope to see you for the Easter NC

All these veiled references and digs really get on my fucking nerves.

I'm sure Fenton didn't mean to cause all this shit.

FFS you can't even flounce off in peace.

To be fair, Hully, it was a million who started with the clues and knowing thing.

Oh, x GetOrf.

Right, I'm orf to wrap DS1s birthday presents and try to come to terms with my firstborn baby being 14.

Happy birthday to your ds. It is a eek moment when they start turning 14, 15, 16.