Im going, ive been flamed and I dont know how to delete the thread

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Like it says above.

I normally lurk

Cant believe how nasty some people are when you clearly feel embaressed enough and feel utterly stupid.

Should never have posted the truth, as it was used to tear strips off me and my big fat mistake.

Shame as there was some nice posters.

Velvet, I'm not inferring the op was in the right either and i'll agree wholeheartedly that the thread went bad when she focused on Bosco. But I don't see how it's ok for one person to make accusations but not the other. FWIW I don't think there is a single post on here where I argue for the sake of it, because that's not ok imo.

I thought Bosco was great to come back on and tell the op to stay, but lots of us were on that thread and lots of others did read it but didn't post.

When you say why do people only notice me when I mean? daft question, who gets berated for being nice?

I think you were unpleasant Bosco.

I think this 'words on a screen' ' everyone gets flamed' thing is an excuse for some people to behave in a way they would never dare to in RL.

It may be just 'words on a screen' but it inspires RL emotions. I think some people behaved badly on that thread.

This will be the last time I will try to defend myself...

I have already stated twice up there ^ my use of the words "Wind you up" were the wrong choice. I didnt mean I kept going to wind her up, I meant I kept going because she was referring to me...No one seems to get past that one sentence....

What I meant honey is that everytime I post I am largely ignored, in fact I am so invisible (being a lurker and all) that you yourself have me confused with someone else. The ONE time I pop my head above the parapet and actually say YABU (which I class as mean-I was pretty damn mild on that thread) and suddenly everyone focused in on me.. so thats what I mean.

And yes I can handle AIBU and the arse burning and all the rest, if I couldnt I wouldnt be defending my position here which I do believe in.. And I (no offense) also dont care what you think, I also do not row for rowing sake but I know what I said.

So again, OP take all this crap out of the equation, see what I wrote to you after that one ill-written sentence and enjoy your pregnancy...

Oh dear, bosco getting a taste of what it was like for the op.

As it happens I think it does need to be left alone now. There aren't many of is who wouldn't respond if we were picked out and named.

OP, I was flamed over a post I made about breastfeeding children over the age of 2 years. I believe my words were...'It's only for the Mothers and not for the children' or some such ridiculous line! I'm still here...Oh yes and I'm also still breastfeeding my Dd at age 4.8 years. Eat own words? Oh yeah!!!

Just stay and brave it out. It'll be fine! :)