Does this film actually exist?

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It's a romcom. 90s/00s. About a couple who meet and have sex and then bump into each other every couple of years and end up having sex, despite having other relationships. Then they end up getting together. That's about it. It's not One Day. It's not When Harry Met Sally. It's American. At the end they're in a little walled courtyard with a wrought iron gate. I think. She might be an artist. There's a good chance it's just a mashup of about 30 other films I've seen. Help?

Another one for you, this one's trickier...
Maybe a gangster film, something crimey anyway. Last couple of years. Someone says to someone else that he has a meeting with his boss. It's sort of a threat. And the guy says "Have you?" in a really sarky creepy way. Might be Tom Hardy or someone who sounds a bit like him.
If you work this one out I'll be amazed...

I like a lot like love. The naked photo of them standing on top of the car, awwww.

There's another one with Alan Alda , Same Time Next Year, not sure of the date, very similar theme