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The most miserable films you've ever seen?

366 replies

HellKitty · 15/01/2015 18:39

Where it finishes and you're more depressed than you were to start with.

Mine:
Stalingrado (Stalingrad) About Nazi's during (yup!) the battle of Stalingrad. In Russian. It is over 2 hours of depression.

All is lost.
Robert Redford at sea. Oh dear. For his face and the film.

The Grey.
Liam Neeson mumbles his way though misery.

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happysunr1se · 21/04/2015 14:40

Hopefulpuffin, I watched subbed.

Zeldie · 22/04/2015 09:26

Slumdog Millionaire

highlighta · 22/04/2015 09:41

YY to The Grey. WTF! I was Shock when it got to the end. I wish i hadn't bothered watching it

Is The Beach the one about those crazed folks living on the island, and they left the friend to die alone away from them in a tent? If so, yes that one too...........

Jamrollypolly · 25/04/2015 10:59

12 years a slave, I just had to switch it off.

sourdrawers · 29/04/2015 11:41

All these films mentioned above are like "Singing In The Rain" compared to the Swedish film "Pele The Conqueror". I defy anyone to watch that and not want to throw themselves under a bus at the end. It's bitter, misanthropic, utterly hopeless and depressing beyond words.

TwartFaceBeetj · 29/04/2015 11:49

'Remember Me' was one of the most depressing film I ever watched. I had know idea what I was about to watch as I was at a friends. It started sad didn't lift at all through the film and left me feeling utterly empty and depressed by the end. It was the sort of feeling that hung around for a few days after too.

PolkadotsAndMoonbeams · 30/04/2015 16:34

Abre Los Ojos (or Vanilla Sky is the English version). Nobody gets a happy ending - I'd have been just as miserable (and less confused!) if I'd turned off after the big car crash at the beginning Confused

PrincessUnicorn · 01/05/2015 22:48

Grave of the fireflies.

Watched it while pregnant with DD2, really wish I hadn't.

marshmallowpies · 02/05/2015 03:17

Am not sure I can ever watch Downfall again. (It was on the other night & I was tempted!) brilliant film but so grim and unrelenting, even though you know what's coming.

Have never seen 12 Year a Slave & realty want to, though I know it will be tough going. Same goes for Das Boot- wanted to see it for years, can't quite bring myself to.

I am never ever going to watch The Road though - I've read the book. Never never ever ever. Too much.

MTWTFSS · 02/05/2015 13:26

Changeling wish I hadn't seen it to be honest :( Was so sad :(

KatharineClifton · 23/05/2015 23:23

Sunshine.

KatharineClifton · 23/05/2015 23:28

Oh and yy to Bridge to Terabithia. I'd bought it as a Christmas present so obviously we watched it on Christmas morning in my bed. The accusations from the kids as to why I would do that to them...

drinkscabinet · 23/05/2015 23:58

Jean de Florette was so depressing I stopped the DVD and asked DH (who had raved about it) if there was a happy ending. We didn't finish watching the DVD.

I agree about expectations, if someone tells you 'this film is depressing but beautiful' then it's fine (I had no problem with Schindler's List, I knew it was going to be hearert rending before I went in) but if someone tells you a film is really good and then it's unrelentingly depressing that makes it even worse.

Wearit · 24/05/2015 00:03

Million Dollar Baby ??

funambulist · 24/05/2015 00:21

I've seen Stuart, A Life Backwards. I think it's particularly upsetting because it's a true story and, it seems even more real to me because I remember the two people who ran the hostel for homeless people being arrested and the campaign to free them, so probably saw Stuart on the news at some point. I always feel that when I see homeless people there is probably a story of terrible suffering going back years that has brought them to that point.

Although depressing I think that it is a film worth watching / book worth reading as it encourages you to see past the first impression a homeless or mentally ill person might give.

Redglitter · 24/05/2015 03:44

Lost in Translation. I was gutted at how much I'd spent to watch such crap and the fact I'd never get back the 2 hours wasted watching it

ItsRainingInBaltimore · 24/05/2015 03:48

Another vote for Revolutionary Road. Just a miserable story of two miserable people making one another miserable. It made me quite cross actually. I wanted to slap them both by the end of it.

whitecandles · 24/05/2015 03:53

Also had to switch off 12 Years a Slave. Just horrible.

Atonement makes me cry every time.

Taegukgi - Korean film about 2 brothers in the war. They are very close but the war destroys their relationship in various awful ways. I cried from about an hour in and didn't stop crying for an hour afterwards.

Bifflepants · 24/05/2015 04:24

Cavalry - watched recently. Unremittingly grim I thought.

Winters Bone. Ditto.

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bikeandrun · 24/05/2015 08:02

Unbroken directed by Angelina Jolie, great film and eventually very uplifting but the POW camp parts are unbelievably harrowing, prolonged scenes of torture filmed was an unrelenting gaze. Again a true story which makes it harder to watch.It is interesting to watch a very male film directed by a woman though.

Stinkersmum · 24/05/2015 08:06

Legends of the Fall. Angela's Ashes.

TweenageAngst · 24/05/2015 08:32

Romper Stomper- an early Russell Crowe film about skinheads in Australia
Once were warriors- New Zealand film about a violent Maori family
Precious- Really hard to watch
I just found them all so bleak

TrulyTurtles · 24/05/2015 08:35

Haven't read half the thread but;
They could hardly make a feel good romp about Stalingrad (or the Holocaust). Interesting "fact" ie may be apocryphal, Jerry Lewis made a film called "the day the clown cried" about a clown whose role it was to lure the children into a false sense of security about going into the gas chambers. The studio pulled it for being too grim.
Anyhoo, many of these films, but my personal bleak fest would include A-fucking-tonement. That was a fun birthday treat. My mate went fir a fag came back and loudly asked "is he not dead yet?" Imagine it was the only time that film got a giggle.
Precious is redeemed by its Oprah ending.
DH is fond of an old French film called Au Hazar Balthazar abiut the grim life of a donkey. (Known as the donkey film in our house)

TrulyTurtles · 24/05/2015 08:38

Oh x post-didnt realise others suffered the Donkey film too.

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