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I feel sad about Angela Rayner

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Neededa · 06/09/2025 06:13

OK, I am left leaning so maybe I am already biased, BUT, I do feel sad that a woman who overcame early issues, who was “proper” working class, who didn’t speak the kings English, but rather with a proper local dialect, and achieved a high office without a single spoon in her working class mouth, has gone.

i do understand that many people will agree with what has happened. I would have been fuming if the story played out the way it had as a different party, and I understand that Angela had to go, BUT as a woman who believes in holding up other women, particularly those who aren’t born to certain families, or have expectations placed on them from word go, I do feel a bit sad this morning.

There was a working class woman in the House of Commons. A working class woman was the deputy prime minister of this country. It is not even 100 years since working class women could vote. I feel sad.

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IGaveSoManySigns · 06/09/2025 07:49

Plinketyplonky · 06/09/2025 07:45

I don’t feel sorry for her at all. She deserves what she got (she should have fully lost her job in my opinion) . She avoided paying tax and was caught. If she has a complex tax situation, she needs proper advice. She would have been the first to bray and shout ‘tory scum’ if someone from the conservative party did the same.

Yet when Farage does it, it’s fine?

CurlewKate · 06/09/2025 07:49

I don’t know how anyone aware of the reputation of Lawrie Magnus can continue to talk about dishonesty and hypocrisy. Infuriating lack of caution and extraordinary misjudgement and she had to go. But no suggestion of wrongdoing.

OhShesSweetButAPsycho · 06/09/2025 07:49

Katypp · 06/09/2025 07:42

That really is not the point.
I agree that AR probably made an honest mistake and I agree Tories have also been found doing similar/worse.
BUT who was mouthing off in the Commons and to the press, baying for resignations, calling for heads to roll, calling people scum?
No other than AR of course.
In my eyes, that is the reason she had to go. The mistake itself could have been managed, but the sheer hypocrisy made it much, much worse.
Being working class, a single mother at 16, having a Northern accent, being a woman etc does not give you a free pass to behave in a way you have hounded others for behaving in the past.

This 100!

Katypp · 06/09/2025 07:49

borntobequiet · 06/09/2025 07:44

I’ve always rather liked her, although I don’t agree with her on a few things. I think it probably was an honest (if stupid) mistake, but it’s right that she resigned.
Badenoch’s reaction is, as ever, spiteful and dishonest.

I would have a look at some AR's past rantings before you say KB is spiteful, tbh

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 06/09/2025 07:50

IGaveSoManySigns · 06/09/2025 06:34

Me too.

She took legal advice, it was wrong, and now she’s being hung out to dry over it. Meanwhile, the tories fleeced us for years and got celebrated for it.

She didn't take advice. She gave the convryancing firm incorrect advice. She's a deceitful hypocrite. I'm glad she's gone.

LancashireButterPie · 06/09/2025 07:51

I think my upbringing was much worse than Angela's and was thrilled that she was in office.
I am really annoyed at what she has done. She's a disgrace frankly.
I'm also disappointed that Chris Packham (who I had a lot of respect for) is choosing to defend the indefensible, by stating his support for her. Mind you he lost some credibility when he got his step daughter a job as a presenter on Springwatch. I hate nepotism.

If you are going to preach at people, at least live by what you are preaching.

x2boys · 06/09/2025 07:51

No i don't feel sorry for her she's clearly a clever woman and it's admirable that she got to the podition she was in but she's quick enough to point out the mistake,s of opposing politicians
And i think some of these comments are a bit patronising and coming across as bless her she made a little mistake no harm done
I can guarantee if this was a male conservative politician attitudes would be very different.

Mistletoewench · 06/09/2025 07:51

Neededa · 06/09/2025 06:13

OK, I am left leaning so maybe I am already biased, BUT, I do feel sad that a woman who overcame early issues, who was “proper” working class, who didn’t speak the kings English, but rather with a proper local dialect, and achieved a high office without a single spoon in her working class mouth, has gone.

i do understand that many people will agree with what has happened. I would have been fuming if the story played out the way it had as a different party, and I understand that Angela had to go, BUT as a woman who believes in holding up other women, particularly those who aren’t born to certain families, or have expectations placed on them from word go, I do feel a bit sad this morning.

There was a working class woman in the House of Commons. A working class woman was the deputy prime minister of this country. It is not even 100 years since working class women could vote. I feel sad.

I totally agree, I actually quite liked her, didn’t always agree with her politics, but admired her for being a role model.
I can’t believe that she has been so naive, she must have known it would have come out at some point.

Notatallanamechange · 06/09/2025 07:52

Mistletoewench · 06/09/2025 07:51

I totally agree, I actually quite liked her, didn’t always agree with her politics, but admired her for being a role model.
I can’t believe that she has been so naive, she must have known it would have come out at some point.

Why are we calling her naive? She was a hypocrite.

IGaveSoManySigns · 06/09/2025 07:52

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 06/09/2025 07:50

She didn't take advice. She gave the convryancing firm incorrect advice. She's a deceitful hypocrite. I'm glad she's gone.

The advice was incorrect. That’s not her fault.

I guess Farage purchasing a house in his partner’s name, to avoid any SDLT at all, is fine?

SpaceRaccoon · 06/09/2025 07:52

Badenoch’s reaction is, as ever, spiteful

At least she's never called anyone else scum.
Women from working class and minority backgrounds only get celebrated if they're members of certain political parties, apparently. Nor would she be given the grace and sympathy Raynor is receiving on here.

willowstar · 06/09/2025 07:52

I agree with you OP.

chuffoff · 06/09/2025 07:53

Wherehasthecatgone · 06/09/2025 06:59

In what way do you think “you need to get specialist tax advice” was bad advice? If she had followed that advice then she would have been fine.

It is not sufficient just to be a working class woman to be in such high office. Nor is it about being ‘Teflon’, it is about having good judgement, an eye to the optics, and not being a hypocrite, There were also genuine questions about finance and how she could afford such expensive properties on her income, even using her son’s trust fund. About buying a ‘first home’ hundreds of miles from the constituency she was meant to represent. And as for the idea that had she come from privilege she would know about taking advice - she was deputy PM ffs, if she didn’t realise it is important to take advice from experts then she had absolutely no right to be in that role!

I listened to a radio phone in with some tax experts and conveyancers yesterday. They all had differing beliefs on what they would have advised re her specific tax situation with the trust fund. Ultimately it was a pretty complex situation and shines a light on just how ridiculously complicated our tax system can be

Truetoself · 06/09/2025 07:53

Hmm when we were purchasing a house our aolicitor advised us how much stamp duty we had to pay …… . Other people who have bought houses - who advised you?

Soontobe60 · 06/09/2025 07:53

Neededa · 06/09/2025 06:58

I do understand those of you who either disagree with Labour policies, or who are disappointed by what you believe are policies that aren’t “left” enough for those that want more.
But I posted in the feminism chat because I somehow believe this is a feminist issue.
Shit, am I wrong because I am still happy that I finally have a Labour MP.? Maybe? I just liked the idea that out deputy PM, was a woman who didn’t go to Oxford, that just meant something to me.

Analysis of the Cabinet last year shows that the vast majority went to a comprehensive school, only 2 members went to Independent schools. Yes, AR was the only one who didn’t go to University, but there were other female cabinet ministers who are ‘Northern working class’ and in fact lived in the same area as AR. They’ve managed to no evade paying £40K stamp duty though.

IGaveSoManySigns · 06/09/2025 07:53

x2boys · 06/09/2025 07:51

No i don't feel sorry for her she's clearly a clever woman and it's admirable that she got to the podition she was in but she's quick enough to point out the mistake,s of opposing politicians
And i think some of these comments are a bit patronising and coming across as bless her she made a little mistake no harm done
I can guarantee if this was a male conservative politician attitudes would be very different.

Edited

Farage did it and he’s got away with it

Onceuponatimethen · 06/09/2025 07:54

The reason she had to go was that she was told to take expert tax advice, didn’t and paid the wrong tax for her housing transaction, as Housing Minister.

Bloodyscarymary · 06/09/2025 07:55

I agree OP but unlike you I also wouldn’t have managed to get worked up about this if it had been a Tory MP. It just seems like such a non-issue. In her particular case I think the fact that she was so vocal calling for resignations when Tories made cock ups makes it worse for her.

If the political environment was such that there was just more understanding for genuine mistakes like this on both sides then she wouldn’t have had to go. I liked Ed Davey’s response and wish politicians were more like that.

I care about the integrity of politicians and how they are solving the country’s problems. So many more important issues than a stamp duty mistake and it feels like we have lost a good person who was committed to the country for no good reason.

Alexandra2001 · 06/09/2025 07:55

x2boys · 06/09/2025 07:51

No i don't feel sorry for her she's clearly a clever woman and it's admirable that she got to the podition she was in but she's quick enough to point out the mistake,s of opposing politicians
And i think some of these comments are a bit patronising and coming across as bless her she made a little mistake no harm done
I can guarantee if this was a male conservative politician attitudes would be very different.

Edited

Well thats not true at all..... Hunt Jenrick and Zahawi all fiddled to save themselves tax or others millions, yet no resignations, no witch hunts in the press.
Farage avoiding SLDT too, all ok, careful tax planning......

Rayner has been subject to years of hounding and mudslinging, its something women on the left of politics have to accept.

Badenoch lied about her education... so what, we all do!!!

Loooop · 06/09/2025 07:56

Boris and his mates extracted millions over covid. She has ruined her career over 40k. But there is the difference. The British public will not tolerate a mistake by a working class woman but will bow down to corruption from their “betters.”

i would never put her in the same category of sturgeon who is responsible for her own self destruction but do notice they did go over a similarly moderate sum. The working classes appear to lack the appetite and skills for true corruption that others with generations of privilege feel entitled to.

Soontobe60 · 06/09/2025 07:56

IGaveSoManySigns · 06/09/2025 07:11

No. Your conveyancers should be able to work out the SDLT payable. It’s part of the service. Whether or not they try to cover their arses with flimsy disclaimers is irrelevant.

They’d be calculating it based on the assumption that the purchaser was giving them the correct information. Or are you honestly saying that she DID give them the correct info, but they got it wrong? If that were the case, then why would she have resigned?

BMW6 · 06/09/2025 07:56

She has pissed me off massively with her arrogance and hypocrisy and has set back working class women achieving high positions.

As a working class woman I am furious and embarrassed by her.

It's all so

"The working class can kiss my ass, I've got the foremans job at last"

I'm sure she's heard of it.

Wherehasthecatgone · 06/09/2025 07:56

IGaveSoManySigns · 06/09/2025 07:52

The advice was incorrect. That’s not her fault.

I guess Farage purchasing a house in his partner’s name, to avoid any SDLT at all, is fine?

The advice was not incorrect, she didn’t follow it. The advice was to get tax advice and had she done so she would have been told the correct tax. That is very d3finitely her fault.

Buying a house in your partners name is not unlawful anymore than putting your son’s money into a discretionary trust so he can still claim benefits despite having hundreds of thousands of pounds to his name is.

Katypp · 06/09/2025 07:57

Alexandra2001 · 06/09/2025 07:48

Yes it's sad, but she did bring this on herself and but questions need to be asked of the Labour Party/Govt? why the heck aren't all things like this run by them first?
An 800k property, even if all done correctly will have the right wing press all over it.
Just as they did on Rayner and false CGT allegations earlier.

Its just a shame that when its a Tory involved in tax evasion, the press/public don't care, Zahawi under paid £5m in tax.... as chancellor!!!

No resignation required.

The irony is, once her son is 18, next year, she can reclaim the additional SLDT, as he can then own property himself.

What Farage has or hasn't done or what any Tory might have done worse is not the point, although I appreciate it is a convenient attempt to justify AR's behavior.
None of the above were attack dogs, baying for resignations, calling people scum and all the while doing the same themselves.
And if they were, you would be the first to say they had to go, wouldn't you?
Can you not see it's the hypocrisy that's the issue here?

x2boys · 06/09/2025 07:58

Katypp · 06/09/2025 07:42

That really is not the point.
I agree that AR probably made an honest mistake and I agree Tories have also been found doing similar/worse.
BUT who was mouthing off in the Commons and to the press, baying for resignations, calling for heads to roll, calling people scum?
No other than AR of course.
In my eyes, that is the reason she had to go. The mistake itself could have been managed, but the sheer hypocrisy made it much, much worse.
Being working class, a single mother at 16, having a Northern accent, being a woman etc does not give you a free pass to behave in a way you have hounded others for behaving in the past.

Exactly both herself and Keir were extremely sanctimonious when they were in the shadow cabinet about the " mistakes " made by the the than Conservative politician, s now the boots on the other foot they have to be held to the same standard.

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