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I feel sad about Angela Rayner

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Neededa · 06/09/2025 06:13

OK, I am left leaning so maybe I am already biased, BUT, I do feel sad that a woman who overcame early issues, who was “proper” working class, who didn’t speak the kings English, but rather with a proper local dialect, and achieved a high office without a single spoon in her working class mouth, has gone.

i do understand that many people will agree with what has happened. I would have been fuming if the story played out the way it had as a different party, and I understand that Angela had to go, BUT as a woman who believes in holding up other women, particularly those who aren’t born to certain families, or have expectations placed on them from word go, I do feel a bit sad this morning.

There was a working class woman in the House of Commons. A working class woman was the deputy prime minister of this country. It is not even 100 years since working class women could vote. I feel sad.

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Nannyfannybanny · 09/09/2025 14:18

My late DM read the sun, she was neither thick or lacking in morals.

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Wherehasthecatgone · 09/09/2025 16:13

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Tryingtokeepgoing · 09/09/2025 17:01

Wherehasthecatgone · 09/09/2025 16:13

Do you really need a warning for ‘big tits’?

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CleopatraSelene · 01/10/2025 17:06

SpaceRaccoon · 06/09/2025 07:52

Badenoch’s reaction is, as ever, spiteful

At least she's never called anyone else scum.
Women from working class and minority backgrounds only get celebrated if they're members of certain political parties, apparently. Nor would she be given the grace and sympathy Raynor is receiving on here.

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Is Badenoch working class? I thought she was middle class.

CleopatraSelene · 01/10/2025 17:07

Thefastandthecurious5 · 07/09/2025 19:55

Kim Leadbeater, Yvette Cooper, David Lammy, Shabana Mahmood - to name a few.

Like Shabana, Yvette & Lammy to some extent. Kim Leadbeater no, not since the euthanasia bill.

Uggbootsforever · 01/10/2025 17:17

who didn’t speak the kings English, but rather with a proper local dialect,

So people with ‘King’s English’ aren’t speaking properly? I hate this reverse snobbery that somehow people with a trace of an accent are more authentic, more genuine, everything they do is somehow more benevolent because they’ve clearly pulled themselves up by the bootstraps..

Owen Jones - university lecturer parents, has never had what one may call a ‘normal’ job outside of think tank type employers

Andy Burnham - Cambridge, straight to political advisor roles. Never done an ordinary day’s work in his life

Lisa Nandy - private school, life peer grandparent, straight to parliamentary researcher after university

John Healey - grammar and private school, OBE dad, Cambridge, journalist for a short while then straight to politics

Your assumption that a good old Northern accent makes you some kind of working class stalwart and salt-of-the-earth character is absolute nonsense

CleopatraSelene · 01/10/2025 17:18

SGBK4862 · 06/09/2025 08:01

No I don't feel sad. She didn't take advice and it was her own fault. For someone in such a public position, she should have been extra careful.

And whilst I have nothing against regional accents, her persistence in speaking ungrammatically annoyed the hell out of me. Everyone else in a position of responsibility manages to make the effort, so she clearly did as a deliberate attempt to keep thrusting her roots at us all.

And yes I am a lifelong labour voter.

Also seems patronising, as if being working class is defined by bad grammar.

RoseAndGeranium · 01/10/2025 17:22

CleopatraSelene · 01/10/2025 17:07

Like Shabana, Yvette & Lammy to some extent. Kim Leadbeater no, not since the euthanasia bill.

Good god. How can anyone regard Lammy with anything other than baffled horror? The guy who thinks a man can grow a cervix with ‘the right hormone treatment and surgery’, that Marie Antoinette won a Nobel Prize for Physics (would at least have been funny if he’d gone for Celeste instead of Curie), that Henry VIII was followed by Henry VII, and most recently that the Hitler Youth was alive, kicking, and trying to recruit Nigel Farage some time in the 70s or 80s (or maybe that Nigel Farage is an actual vampire or a particularly rare type of rights-hoarding dinosaur(???) who was in his youth in the 1930s and 40s). He’s a one-man repeat issue of Dumb Britain and I still shudder at the thought that he was Foreign Secretary.

CleopatraSelene · 01/10/2025 17:37

RoseAndGeranium · 01/10/2025 17:22

Good god. How can anyone regard Lammy with anything other than baffled horror? The guy who thinks a man can grow a cervix with ‘the right hormone treatment and surgery’, that Marie Antoinette won a Nobel Prize for Physics (would at least have been funny if he’d gone for Celeste instead of Curie), that Henry VIII was followed by Henry VII, and most recently that the Hitler Youth was alive, kicking, and trying to recruit Nigel Farage some time in the 70s or 80s (or maybe that Nigel Farage is an actual vampire or a particularly rare type of rights-hoarding dinosaur(???) who was in his youth in the 1930s and 40s). He’s a one-man repeat issue of Dumb Britain and I still shudder at the thought that he was Foreign Secretary.

What??? Oh my goodness, had no idea. Definitely not then.

LemondrizzleShark · 01/10/2025 17:53

Nigel Farage is an actual vampire or a particularly rare type of rights-hoarding dinosaur(???) who was in his youth in the 1930s and 40s

To be fair, do we know that this isn’t true?

RoseAndGeranium · 01/10/2025 19:44

LemondrizzleShark · 01/10/2025 17:53

Nigel Farage is an actual vampire or a particularly rare type of rights-hoarding dinosaur(???) who was in his youth in the 1930s and 40s

To be fair, do we know that this isn’t true?

Well, there's more chance of Farage being one of the Undead than there is of a bloke growing a cervix, I'll give you that.

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 16:21

ThatPlumSquid · 06/09/2025 08:23

I was going to mention her when people were saying we have never had a working class female on the front benches but didn't think it would go down too
well!

Is an alderman and politician's daughter working class? Need to check though when Thatcher's dad took those positions up.

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 16:50

BayonetCharge · 06/09/2025 12:48

It's so insulting that people rate Rayner because of her working class schtick- her "gobbiness"/her teen pregnancy.
No, she was insufferable and thick and she does not represent or enhance the profile of under-privileged women from the north
She's the metropolian elite's idea of northern/Midland working class
You'd be amazed but there are women from council estates around here- West Yorkshire- who can think for themselves, have standards and aren't full of entitlement (but they're the ones vilified for WrongThink)
Jess Phillips is an another Labour example of professional working class (gobby/ranty)- though of course she's solidly middle class- just larping
The left needs to raise its expectations of women/working class/minorities- maybe then we'd see a shift in the calibre of its politicians
All so insulting

Edited

Personally I'm glad Phillips is 'gobby' and 'ranty' about VAWG.

ThatPlumSquid · 02/10/2025 17:08

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 16:21

Is an alderman and politician's daughter working class? Need to check though when Thatcher's dad took those positions up.

I believe her father was the Mayor of Grantham at one point. Although if being appointed mayor means you cease to be working class, perhaps it's time Sadiq khan dropped his whole 'son of a bus driver' schtick 🤔

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 17:27

ThatPlumSquid · 02/10/2025 17:08

I believe her father was the Mayor of Grantham at one point. Although if being appointed mayor means you cease to be working class, perhaps it's time Sadiq khan dropped his whole 'son of a bus driver' schtick 🤔

I think that's missing the point though. Being appointed mayor doesn't negate a working class childhood, but if you were a child when your dad was mayor, are you having a working class upbringing?

It's like saying my gran was working class bc her mum was a sheep farmer's daughter, but by the time she had my gran she was a qualified teacher and married to a fairly well-off banker.

ThatPlumSquid · 02/10/2025 18:11

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 17:27

I think that's missing the point though. Being appointed mayor doesn't negate a working class childhood, but if you were a child when your dad was mayor, are you having a working class upbringing?

It's like saying my gran was working class bc her mum was a sheep farmer's daughter, but by the time she had my gran she was a qualified teacher and married to a fairly well-off banker.

Yes that makes sense but her father was mayor when she was 20 and an alderman when she was 25 so she was certainly an adult by then. Don't get me wrong I definitely don't speak as a fan of hers in any way shape or form, but if a female labour politician grew up in a flat above a shop and rose to the position of PM, her working class roots would be flagged up at every opportunity, regardless of what her dad did outside of running the grocers shop later in his life.

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 18:29

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 08/09/2025 20:43

The Sun used to have more Labour voting readers than Tory. Probably still does.

But knock yourself out with the insults. 👍

Is reading the Sun a compliment to anyone?

Phone hacking, Hillsborough, AIDS crisis, harassing the royals, Page 3 with Sam Fox at 16 etc ...OK those were some time ago but it's still owned by the rotten Murdoch.

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 18:30

ThatPlumSquid · 02/10/2025 18:11

Yes that makes sense but her father was mayor when she was 20 and an alderman when she was 25 so she was certainly an adult by then. Don't get me wrong I definitely don't speak as a fan of hers in any way shape or form, but if a female labour politician grew up in a flat above a shop and rose to the position of PM, her working class roots would be flagged up at every opportunity, regardless of what her dad did outside of running the grocers shop later in his life.

Oh right sorry. I thought he did that when she was a child.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 02/10/2025 18:32

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 18:29

Is reading the Sun a compliment to anyone?

Phone hacking, Hillsborough, AIDS crisis, harassing the royals, Page 3 with Sam Fox at 16 etc ...OK those were some time ago but it's still owned by the rotten Murdoch.

Take it up with the majority of Sun readers, who vote Labour, or certainly used to.

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 18:32

Barbadossunset · 09/09/2025 10:31

Yes anyone buying a paper for pics of naked young girls is thick & lacking morals.

Yes, I dare say they are, but the original point iirc was that the right wing press has too much power.
If that’s the case then maybe the left wing press should make their newspapers (including online, obvs) and magazine more appealing so that they increase their readership.
Also the right wing press hasn’t stopped people from voting Labour.

Appealing ? Not by page 3, at least..

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 18:33

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 02/10/2025 18:32

Take it up with the majority of Sun readers, who vote Labour, or certainly used to.

Why would most Sun readers vote Labour yet buy a very right wing paper? Do you have stats?

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 02/10/2025 18:34

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 18:33

Why would most Sun readers vote Labour yet buy a very right wing paper? Do you have stats?

Google it.

Holliegee · 02/10/2025 18:35

Hasn’t this thread turned into a spiteful pit of vitriol??

Angela Rayner made a mistake, a mistake that cost her dearly - I have met her many times she is a lovely down to earth woman, her accent/voice/colloquialisms are all her.
She has done fantastically well despite/inspire of her background and as a fellow woman I find a whole thread of women really slating her quite distasteful.
Many of our politicians have had chequered pasts and made wrong decisions.

In reply to some of the comments,Nigel Farage is quite a charming man in regular company - if you’re not discussing politics that is.

And I think that being a mayor and an alderman is quite possible to do whilst remaining working class - I speak with knowledge.

we all want the political parties to represent the real people and be real but we want them whiter than white and beyond reproach too - and it’s never going to happen.

CleopatraSelene · 02/10/2025 18:41

Nannyfannybanny · 09/09/2025 14:18

My late DM read the sun, she was neither thick or lacking in morals.

What did she think about their coverage of Hillsborough, AIDS, harassing the royals, hacking phones, Page 3?

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