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Teenage girl murdered in the Netherlands

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Thornyrose7 · 29/08/2025 13:39

I just want to express my shock and outrage regarding the case of Lisa,age 17 who was murdered whilst cycling home from a party in Amsterdam.
The story is here:
https://www.brusselstimes.com/1716887/schoolgirls-brutal-murder-unleashes-wave-of-anger-in-netherlands

I had just returned from a holiday in that exact area.I felt that it was a wonderfully safe place for women and girls compared to most other cities I have been to.The pictures of the tributes are placed at the same area that my teen daughter and I walked happily along just a week ago.Its also an area full of students and families. That poor girl and her family. I am sickened by these evil men.

The Brussels Times

https://www.brusselstimes.com/1716887/schoolgirls-brutal-murder-unleashes-wave-of-anger-in-netherlands

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LoisRoad · 29/08/2025 13:49

Awful.

What could it be that's suddenly making the streets of The Netherlands unsafe for women and girls, I wonder 🤔

iwishihadaname · 29/08/2025 13:57

how many women and girls are killed by Dutch men? Where is the outrage ?

Comefromaway · 29/08/2025 14:02

My daughter is in Holland at the moment. She previously went on a tour of several cities, travelling alone but visiting friends but this time she is staying in Zandvoort and will be visiting Amsterdam.

This is tragic, but the fact it has made the news like shows shows it is fairly rare. It's when murders of women don't make the news that it shows we have become desensitised.

The killer could just as easily have been a Dutch man as an asylum seeker.

JeremiahBullfrog · 29/08/2025 23:07

I think if I had fled my home country in fear of my life and was hoping to be given a safe haven in another country, I would be keeping my head down and being super-careful not to break any laws.

On the other hand if I was strongly inclined to rape and murder people I suppose pretending to need asylum in a nice liberal country might give me a nice chance of getting away with a much lighter punishment than I might receive in my third-world homeland.

GingerPower · 01/09/2025 02:28

Statistically there's much more chance of a Dutch man committing femicide simply down to the higher proportion of Dutch men in Holland. However, I believe the latest stats show that foreign nationals are over represented in proportion to their numbers. I think Afghan men were 3x more likely to commit a sex crime (not 22x more likely as Farage claimed).

The argument seems to be that you can't really deport the native men but you can vet immigrants from countries with highly misogynistic cultures.

coxesorangepippin · 01/09/2025 03:02

Exactly. Where is the outrage.

Yes she could have been killed by a Dutch man - but she wasn't, was she???

happydappy2 · 01/09/2025 21:23

So awful & needless-European countries need to stop allowing immigration of males from 3rd world countries. Her poor family-such a waste of a beautiful life

heartsinvisiblefury · 01/09/2025 21:26

It says he had been arrested before for another attack ! This is horrendous

Wornouttoday · 01/09/2025 21:30

I think all men should be under a curfew and not be out after 8pm so we women can move freely without fear of rape or murder.

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 21:34

iwishihadaname · 29/08/2025 13:57

how many women and girls are killed by Dutch men? Where is the outrage ?

Oh.stop it with the whataboutery!!

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 01/09/2025 21:47

Wornouttoday · 01/09/2025 21:30

I think all men should be under a curfew and not be out after 8pm so we women can move freely without fear of rape or murder.

Part of me agrees with you. And part of me wonders how my son would be able to get home from work if that were the case!

Namitynamename · 03/09/2025 12:02

iwishihadaname · 29/08/2025 13:57

how many women and girls are killed by Dutch men? Where is the outrage ?

There was that guy who raped a 13 year old English girl repeatedly but he was good at volleyball so it's different.

I hope the men who did this go away for a long time. I hope they suffer. But pretending it's only an issue when a brown man attacks a Dutch girl but no big deal when a white Dutch man attacks an English (or any foreign) child is peak hypocrisy.

Namitynamename · 03/09/2025 12:11

GingerPower · 01/09/2025 02:28

Statistically there's much more chance of a Dutch man committing femicide simply down to the higher proportion of Dutch men in Holland. However, I believe the latest stats show that foreign nationals are over represented in proportion to their numbers. I think Afghan men were 3x more likely to commit a sex crime (not 22x more likely as Farage claimed).

The argument seems to be that you can't really deport the native men but you can vet immigrants from countries with highly misogynistic cultures.

It's not just Afghans that are complained about. English tourists are a known problem especially in Amsterdam. It is discussed a LOT and TBF its the stag parties given the English a bad name and being rowdy. But, while I don't want to excuse the English men actually committing crimes/causing issues, it is kind of hypocritical for the Dutch authorities to encourage tourists to come to the country to pay Eastern European women for sex and then complain that said tourists are not the best sort. They want the money from the sex trade, and they want to pretend it's super empowering but they also want the men who come for non-consensual sex with women to be princes of good behaviour.

See also this case - the Dutch don't like to lock people up/punish them heavily which is probably correct for lots of crimes but sticks in the craw for sexual crimes etc. but I have had this argument before and they love imagining themselves to be super tolerant and liberal. But it makes women less safe in these instances. But you can't only get angry when it's a migrant doing it and ignore all the other stuff.

And a super fun, cool guy attitude to cocaine/turning a blind eye to drugs snuggling for years combined with outrage at the mocro-mafia.

I love the Netherlands. But some of the problems are part of Dutch culture NOT a foreign imposition and pretending otherwise helps no-one.

Namitynamename · 03/09/2025 12:19

I feel awful about that girls murder. I am glad people are protesting it. I just hate the way the right in NL uttered no peep about murders like this one https://www.dutchamsterdam.nl/585-amsterdam-prostitute-stabbed-death (she also had hopes and dreams) or the fact a convicted paedophile was allowed to compete in the Olympics, but are making hay with this case

If it increases police response times, or leads to harsher treatment of rapists so they can't continue committing crimes the outrage will have done a good thing. I hope it doesn't get diverted.

Prostitute stabbed to death in Amsterdam

Amsterdam police is investigating the stabbing death of a 19-year old prostitute. It is the 13th time that a prostitute has been murdered in Amsterdam since 1990.

https://www.dutchamsterdam.nl/585-amsterdam-prostitute-stabbed-death

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