@Summerhillsquare I'm not sure what your issue is. The woman reports that the man makes her feel cared for and listened to. He shows her classic films and he likes the British Wildlife Centre, so he sounds like a more cerebral and wordly person than the average man who stares at car magazines and goes to the pub with "his mates."
It seems he has erectile dysfunction and a number of other medical issues. God forbid that people with medical issues have relationships, and god forbid that people have sex that doesn't revolve around penetration.
The only thing that raised an eyebrow is that it says the man already had a partner at the time he started his relationship with this woman... but then, the woman also implied that she doesn't tell her partners that she's already in a relationship: "I used to tell the people I was dating, but those relationships didn’t last, and I found that being poly shrinks your dating pool." So they're as bad as each other in that regard, I guess.