Shamed by colleagues

[outdoorsky]

I wore a skirt to an important meeting with a manager and my colleagues said I was being flirty and tarty.

I joked and said, well it's either legs or tits and I went for the legs.

This was obviously (for me) a joke and in no way shape or form would I fuck the boss to get ahead 🤢.

Skirts make me feel empowered. And my femininity is empowering to me.

Now I feel shame - bought on by my colleagues. I feel cheap, nasty and confused. Maybe I'm not empowered. Maybe I was in denial?

In a turn of events, my manager turned out to be a total perv.

Am I at fault? Was I playing with fire?

Unless your skirt was so short and tight that you may have not been wearing it, then it's a load of bullshit.
If it was a perfectly normal office-type skirt, what's the problem?

It was ankle length to be precise. Don't see the problem either. They are jealous bitches anyway.

Was what you were wearing appropriate for the setting?

I work in an office where women regularly wear dresses and skirts, no one really comments beyond the ‘oh that’s nice, where’s it from?’ Remark.

Do you have a picture of the skirt?

Oh dear.

Nice try

I usually dress quite drab but I thought I would dress up as it made me feel better.

I kept on getting comments such as I was trying to impress the boss so I made a joke about it.

Turns out boss was total perv too. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@SirChenjins ?

Well this sounds real

You should've opted for tits if you only had a long skirt.

Actual lol

So it wasn't tits OR legs then?

What do you think they're jealous of? You don't sound very nice

Do you want us to ask why the boss is a perv too?

If you were wearing a long skirt does that mean you had your boobs out?

Tits or top of foot, it's a thing.

Personally I find showing off my brain to be more empowering. But as they say, 'you do you'

She was wearing an ankle
Length skirt. Hardly showing off her legs.

Although I agree op that makes your comment about tits or legs really weird tbh

How is wearing an ankle length (or indeed any length) skirt empowering?

Knee sorry not ankle 🙈🙈 just above the knee.

Grateful for the ankle to knee length clarification.
I was picturing a pervy Victorian boss leering at a glimpse of ankle.

@deydododatdodontdeydo 🤣🤣

“Skirts make me feel empowered. And my femininity is empowering to me.”

Well clearly it isn’t because you feel shamed. Bizarre.

It's not half term is it? Maybe this numpty had the day off school ill.