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Am I wrong

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R18 · 25/02/2023 15:55

Is it me but I asked 3 times for help to put the hose pipe away because if I do it hurts my recoving shoulder to much. I left it there for 10 minutes came back still there so I started to move it because I did not want an argument but got one anyway.
How many times should you have to ask??

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U1sce · 25/02/2023 16:05

You shouldnt have to ask at all, but if you do, then once. We can all make a mistake and forget to do something occasionally but as a regular thing, just once!

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R18 · 25/02/2023 16:41

Thanks for that once should be OK.
He said because he saw me rubbing my shoulder I should have left it so he could fall over it and break a bone...
I mean I can not win today or be left in peace to get on with my jobs.

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ControversialOpening · 26/02/2023 22:26

10 minutes! What kind of monster is he?

If you ask someone to do something (or if it's their job) let them get on with it when and how they want.
If you don't like the way they do it or when they do it then either:

  • have a discussion explaining why you prefer it done in a particular way, or
  • do it yourself
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