Wrong analogy. The equivalent is "unbelievable that people can't have surgery because surgeons can't appoint stand ins whilst on maternity leave".
And half this thread seems to be saying the solution to that is "women shouldn't be surgeons if they want maternity leave".
We still have people insisting proxies are available for MPs (they are not, only for ministers), that the onsite creche takes babies from birth (it doesn't) and that workplace nurseries are apparently places where babies can just be dumped at will.
The reports I read were that the baby was ten weeks at the time so not old enough. However the debate was scheduled by the house whilst she was out - not something in her control or something for which she will get much notice in order to apply for an early nursery place.
Lets forget this is the Wicked Witch of Wandsworth, guilty of wrong think. Pretend its Rosie Duffield if that helps.
For any woman MP there is no arrangement in place to allow a proxy in the chamber whilst they are on leave. So you are telling voters that if they vote for a woman under 45 they risk being without an MP for a time.
If proxies are possible for Ministers then they should be usable by MPs. In fact half the country don't even know their MP because they vote blue, red or sometimes yellow/orange so I'm not buying the idea that the electorate is that devoted to one individual that a proxy under instruction to vote breaks the democratic bond..
If we aspire to be a modern representative democracy with more women in parliament then we need to stop letting it run like a Victorian gentleman's club and use either proxies or modern technology for remote voting (which they had in place all through the pandemic and JRM, that well known feminist, removed).
This isn't just an issue for mat leave either. MPs having treatment such as chemotherapy or who have limited mobility and remote constituencies find themselves in the similar boat. Perhaps we should simply tell the electorate "just vote for young, healthy men".