Ignoring some random idiot who wanted ectopic pregnancies to end naturally, ie with the mother dying, the rest of your argument is incoherent.
It's clear to everyone that a mother cannot kill her born child just because they're a nuisance or hinder her. She cannot even refuse to keep it alive, we call that neglect. That is because the child is a human being and as such entitled to all human rights.
It's also fairly agreed across the board that sperm and unfertilised eggs are not human beings.
The question is at what point to we confer human status on the child. There can be arguments for doing so at the point of conception, heartbeat, viability outside of the womb, sentience, or whatever other point we decide. But whatever the case may be, the moment we agree that the child is an actual human being with human rights, the wishes or inconvenience of the mother become irrelevant. Same as we don't allow killings of born children.
But that is the only pertinent issue. It's not about women's rights or persecution of women. It's about the protection of a small human being, and the question of when that being is granted humanity and human rights.
There might be an argument for a woman being allowed to abort the unborn child that was foisted upon her without her consent (rape), but if she went along with the conception, she has no right to kill the child. So we're back to the question of what is considered a child/human being.
You can be very pro women's rights yet believe a fetus with its own heartbeat is already a human being with human rights, and conversely, you can be the biggest misogynist yet think a human being is only one who is actually born. These two issues are not connected.