I read this

[TheSandgroper]

And now I have to look at the men in my family, in my workplace, in my friendship groups and wonder about them.

www.thecut.com/2022/03/what-white-men-say-in-our-absence.html

That is a chilling article. No other word for it.

Its always white men. Clearly they are the only ones to listen to

Ugh yeah, I read this a couple of weeks ago. So much violence lurking there.