@Kimilybob
I actually agree with much of what women say is wrong about recent trans issues. However i dont see it as a factor that has ever affected our rights, so that notion is just wrong. No rights have been affected.
OK. I shall repeat myself. Anyone who recognises my username can scroll on passed.
@Kimilybob how do you feel about refuges and rape crisis centres having their funding refused specifically because they are single sex organisations? We have existed for decades. We were set up in a front room back in the 80s. Self funded, secret, self supporting. We grew because there was, still is, a measurable need for women and their kids to escape from abusive men.
Two maybe 3 years ago I started to get questions back when I wrote an updated bid for funding (actually it was pre-Covid, so longer than I thought). We are not, it seems, diverse enough.
We take ANY woman. We take ANY woman and her kids, male and female if they are reliant upon her. We take ANY woman. ALL women. We don't care about her ethnicity, religion, dis/ability, educational level, working status, personal opinions. We just care that she is female and the victim of abuse.
I now have 2 major funding streams who have stopped our funding because we are not diverse enough - one even specifically stated that we needed to provide services for men.
This despite the law they rely upon to make that statement wholly supports us being single sex. - the EA2010 uses centres such as ours as a prime example in their guidance notes.
But no. We have been refused. Repeatedly.
To regain that funding (which we REALLY need) we would have to accept men into our services. We have effectively lost the right to be single sex. To meet the criteria we would need to spend an inordinate amount of money on facilties, safeguarding procedures, new staff, building modifications, etc etc. That cost would outstrip the funding we have lost.
So we have retrenched. We now support fewer women as we again rely on smaller fundning streams. That is fewer women and kids being safely housed and supported after experienced domestic abuse.
Now, tell me again that we, the women we support, have lost nothing, That our rights have not been in any way diminished.