So safeguarding is a nonsense then, @Kimilybob?
And, as has been said, you are mistaking a feminist focus on rights for women for the exclusion of all other rights. I will fight for the rights of women, I will support anyone else in their fight for their rights UNLESS those rights come at a cost to women.
You seem to think that 'exclusion' is a dirty word. But I bet you exclude many things from your life on a daily basis, unthinking, uncaring. Things that garner repsect, things that ssure your safety... dressing apporpriately for the occasion, looking left and right when crossing the road.
Your understanding of respect is odd. Everyone starts with the repspect that everyone accords every other person. It is to be lost through your own actions, or it can be gained, bolstered by them. But everyone begins with the basic respect of their peers etc. Or do you meet new people and according them the status of dog shit on your shoes?
And yes, feminism is not a catch all, we are not Borg. We are independently minded women arguing for what we believe to be right. I don't want a Borg or Communist, single comunity with one goal life. I am happier with infinite variety - as society that respects the rights and boundaries of each of its members and does not set out to take away from the dignity and safety of anyone.