This thread has been an absolute revelation to me.
Some months ago I went to have a new IUD inserted. When I was in the chair, in the stirrups, speculum in, the gynae asked to do an endometrial biopsy.
I asked why & was told >40, break thru bleeds on mirena, better safe than sorry.
I literally knew this wasn't informed consent (I teach this topic at graduate level) & I still consented. The gynae is an eminent gynae oncologist so of course I wanted him to check this very important thing.
It was beyond hideous. I was sweating. In so so much pain - I needed a vomit bowl at one point. After 2 biopsies i had to tel him to stop. He examined the biopsies & said he wanted to take one one.
I grudgingly agreed as I didn't want an equivocal result.
Finally after 30/40 mins he inserted the IUD.
I bled for 6 weeks. I was absolutely shaken. I needed to go home (I was mid shift at work). I felt ghastly for days.
Months later I cannot believe I had this procedure with no anaesthetic. How on earth did I, an assertive health care professional who works in reproductive health allow my colleague to do this to me?
AND I GAVE HIM A BOTTLE OF WINE AS A THANK YOU. 