After my experience where the gynae called the nurse doing the vocal-local hand-holding "stupid" for telling him that I was insisting he stop, I will never have one without GA again.
This man was happily causing me immense pain but ignoring it. He carried on, ignoring my physical and emotional distress. I threw up, was sweating, crying and shaking. Panicking about not being able to breathe while another nurse was trying to clean up and reassure me. The vocal-local nurse shouting at him to stop panicked me even more.
All this when I expected, like others, a discussion about my TVS scan that I'd told him I'd found painful. I'd also told him that I was very uncomfortable with the procedure going ahead as I was still under psychology for sex abuse and would rather have gone home and prepared for it.
I was told I'd be wasting a precious and expensive NHS appointment if I didn't go ahead there and then.
Would he see his mother/sister/wife/daughter go through that to save some time and money?
It's all about cost, isn't it? It's cheaper to have someone walk out straight after a procedure than prep them, administer GA then have them in a bed for the rest of the day.
Monetary cost trumps the emotional cost to women.
I'm physically disabled and have pain conditions (fibro and CRPS). I feel pain 'differently' to others but the emotional pain this procedure cost me has lasted to this day. It only took a few weeks for the bleeding and physical pain to subside.
My BIL was offered GA for a colonoscopy, which he took. Six months previously my sister wasn't but asked for it for hers. She was told it would cost more and had more risks, that she would be far better off not having it. She also has fibro and found it excruciating.
Why do they offer men but guilt-trip women?