Struggling to accept my marriage is over after talking too much

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Can’t except marriage is over! I’m really shocked and devastated he ended the marriage, he said I talked about my feelings too much and it wasn’t working ,Please don’t judge me for talking about talking about my feelings too much I couldn’t help it I was very emotional when I’m very upset I talk a lot about my feelings feelings it who I am I understand it was draining for him I deeply regret going on so much! I was feeling extremely emotional as I’d come off my antidepressants and lowered my antipsychotic this was a huge mistake I’ve since upped the dose of antipsychotic medication and gone on antidepressants but I still talk about things a lot I hate myself I wish I didn’t do this ,

How though when you separated from him quite a while ago?

Kindly, you are clearly struggling and need proper professional help. You have been stuck in this negative thought spiral for quite some time. Your relationship has been over for a long time, you need to accept that and start taking steps to move on. You are clearly unwell, and your perceptions may not be entirely accurate right now.

Im not unwell

You are, lovely. I really feel for you and you really need to speak to someone in your real life. Do you think it would be possible to have a chat with your GP?

Ive done nothing wrongʻ

I’m not saying you have. You don’t sound like you have done anything wrong, you have been through what was clearly a really traumatic time, and that’s not your fault. But you are not well and you really red some real life help.

You really are unwell. Please see the professional who deals with your mental health. Show them this thread if it would help.

I think his decision will most likely be about him and not you. I think him saying you’re talking too much means he doesn’t feel listened to. If you’re talking you can’t listen.

Im still living with him but he says we have to sell the house as he lost his job he dosent want tto

Im feeling desperate

Please ring the crisis team OP, you need help

Contact crisis team and get rl legal advice.

Yes, ring the crisis team.

If you don’t feel able to do that then please call the Samaritans. They will be able to offer you emotional support and sign post you to other services.