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Really struggling to see a way out other than to just end it

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TheBigPurpleOne25 · 28/04/2025 23:25

I have had bad mental health for years, since my late teens, I'm early 30s now and have a 3yo DS who is literally my only reason for living but even I suck at that. He is suspected to be autistic and non verbal and is very challenging. I'm constantly losing my temper, I'm always so anxious and upset and I spend a lot of my time crying. I actually think I may have bi polar but I feel like the doctor will laugh at me. I have days where I feel full of confidence and I feel like I can rip a tree out of the ground, then I have days where I literally feel like someone has died. The bad days are more frequent. Today had been a bad day, I do have a lot going on and stresses in my life that I can't really go into right now but my logical brain can see that even these things doesn't warrant my reactions. Everything feels so bleak all the time and I just want to get through one day without crying my eyes out and imagining my families life without me in it. I'm always moaning and whining about how I feel and I'm just a burden to everyone. I love my son so much and I can't bare the thought of not being here to love him but I also can't bare the thought of living this life anymore. Theres no joy, no happiness, just misery. This is all about of a mess and a rant but I have no one to tell this too and no one believes me anyway.

CCmumsnet · 29/04/2025 10:01

Hello OP, we are really sorry to hear you are feeling this way.
We hope you don't mind, but when these threads are flagged up to us we usually add a link to our Mental Health resources. You can also go to the Samaritans website or email them on [email protected]. Support from other Mumsnetters is great and we really hope you will be able to take some comfort from your fellow posters, but as other MNers will tell you, it's really a good idea to seek RL help and support as well.💐

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