Nobody loves me

[PWBELCHER]

I accept that I will die alone. I might need encouragement to ethically end my life sooner than later.

It wouldn't be ethical to encourage you. Do you want to talk about what's going on?

There is always time to find love in friendship or even from a pet who will love you unconditionally You have innate value as a human being and who knows what connections and opportunities are ahead for you. Wishing you well

Hey,

Please reach out to someone in your life about your feelings, even the mental health crisis number. I am sure you are very very loved and this is definitely not the right answer. Things may look a certain way now but they won’t always be this way. I hope you are ok and seek help from someone. Sending hugs

Hi OP, I don’t really have any words of wisdom but I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. Nobody loves me either but I am working with a therapist to try to change my life so it has some meaning.
Can you tell us a bit more about your life so we can offer some suggestions to help?

Hi there @PWBELCHER I'm sorry you feel this way, you don't deserve it. How do you feel about going to church?

Everything in life is a chore right now. I am not loved in any capacity. This whole city, and possibly the world at large, is full of useless assholes. I attempted back in 2023 and almost nobody said anything. I am allowed too easily to die alone. My existence points to every flaw in society.

I get it. Some of us are just born to suffer it seems. Establishing any kind of contentment just seems like immense hard work. I'd happily seek a painless legal exit from this hell and I believe it should be available. The world of 2025 is unbearable for many.

I’m sorry things are so tough for you at the moment OP.
Do you have a partner or children? Are you working at the moment?

When you’re as rock bottom as you are, it’s so very hard to see any light . Try to nurture your lovely self by treating yourself as you would a small child - protect yourself , care for yourself , be gentle , understanding and kind with yourself, lots of small treats to boost you and lift your spirits so that you start to properly cherish yourself xx
So glad you found the courage to reach out today
Strength❤️ and hugs ❤️

I understand how you are feeling and it hurts beyond belief to feel that way. It might feel like nobody cares but I'm sure they do and you mean the world to them. Hope you feel a bit brighter tomorrow x

I know what you mean OP. But things can get better - there are still good people and loving connections to be made. Have you ever spoken to someone about the way you are feeling? Professional or otherwise.

Hello OP, we are really sorry to hear you are feeling this way.

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