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2023/24 SAD thread

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 13/10/2023 12:34

Hi again, I’m back for another year ☹️. I can’t see that anyone has started a SAD thread yet but today seems to be the day that it’s really kicking in! So here’s another thread to support each other through winter 🥶.

Just to introduce myself, I have regular depression with SAD on top, an eating disorder and ASD (a fun combination).

All are welcome, the only rule is no one is allowed to mention, hygge, snuggling or being cosy!

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 26/02/2024 12:37

@lyingonthebeach I’m so jealous! Hope you’re having a fab holiday!

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lyingonthebeach · 28/02/2024 17:52

@Idratherbepaddleboarding I hope you had a super birthday with glimmers of sun. Hopefully, proper Spring is on the way. X

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 01/03/2024 08:59

@lyingonthebeach thanks it was a lovely birthday 😊. I’m having some sort of existential crisis this week though. Why do we work all week just to pay bills, it’s so stupid! There’s definitely too much work and not enough fun in life and certainly no time for rest! It was pay day yesterday and watching the bank balance just drain on bills is seriously depressing ☹️. Plus it’s been miserable weather all week and I’m so sick of being cold 😡.

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 03/03/2024 17:45

It’s a beautiful day today after a miserable week!

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lyingonthebeach · 08/03/2024 10:51

It's bright and sunny today. Is a decent spring really a possibility (desperate hopefulness taking over)?

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 08/03/2024 12:00

lyingonthebeach · 08/03/2024 10:51

It's bright and sunny today. Is a decent spring really a possibility (desperate hopefulness taking over)?

It’s been bright and sunny all week here but it clouded over just as I was leaving work yesterday and today is absolutely freeeeeezing!

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lyingonthebeach · 09/03/2024 08:41

I spoke/wrote too soon.......... it's depressingly grey and wet here 😢

lyingonthebeach · 12/03/2024 09:54

and now it's even greyer and wetter. I have completely crashed! I feel tired and slow and weepy!

I just need to share. Thanks

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 12/03/2024 22:37

@lyingonthebeach it’s bloody miserable isn’t it? Im so sick of it 😭.

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lyingonthebeach · 13/03/2024 11:18

@Idratherbepaddleboarding

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 14/03/2024 07:29

Another day of rain. It’s been raining constantly since Sunday 😭. I honestly feel like ringing in sick (I won’t!).

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EmmaEmerald · 14/03/2024 22:49

@Idratherbepaddleboarding It's a nightmare isn't it.

Raining and windy all the time.

I do think my energy levels are picking up with the longer days - but I feel very bored and trapped. I have to get out in this weather as I don't drive - but it is a nuisance. My neighbour was telling me this weather makes her miserable walking the dog.

I am not in the depths of SAD, just really bored and grumpy I guess.

lyingonthebeach · 17/03/2024 15:02

Just wondering - today it was grey, then an hour or so of sun/blue sky and now it's grey again. Temperature was not really different. My mood and spirits were noticeably different during the grey/blue.

Am I the only one?

EmmaEmerald · 17/03/2024 17:05

@Idratherbepaddleboarding No, same here.... and don't quote me on this, but I think I heard we only use a limited amount of light for actually seeing things. The rest of it we need for brain function or something?

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 18/03/2024 14:14

@EmmaEmerald I think that was meant for @lyingonthebeach but I’ve heard the same as that’s why SAD lamps work.

It’s been the same here, grey one minute and sunny the next and I feel like 2 different people! I was starting to worry I had bipolar!

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EmmaEmerald · 22/03/2024 16:53

It's just turned sunny now...I've been tired and discombobulated and working badly all day. Not quite sure what to do now... typical my brain engages at a time I could, in theory, clock off...

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 23/03/2024 19:10

It’s been awful here for the we last few days, raining, blowing a gale and sooooo cold. DH dragged us out to watch a rally and I almost cried I was so cold. I probably would have if the sertraline would allow me to cry. It’s supposed to be spring! I’m absolutely sick of it.

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lyingonthebeach · 24/03/2024 08:53

I hear you. There have been moments (and I do mean mere moments) of sunshine which reminded me of the Spring days of yore but right now it's is cold and grey and I want to cry! It feels never ending!

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 24/03/2024 22:55

@lyingonthebeach it’s actually been a gorgeous day today. I was even warm walking the dog in just leggings and a hoodie! Back to normal tomorrow 😭 but at least the dog and I got a little vitamin D while DS played golf.

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lyingonthebeach · 28/03/2024 20:18

It's supposed to be Spring. It's been grey and cold all day. Then it rained and now it's howling a gale :(

I am on the max vitamin D and the SAD light is never off!

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 28/03/2024 21:08

I know right! I think the sun did come out briefly today but I was stuck in the office and by the time I got home it was grey, cold and windy again 😡.

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 29/03/2024 13:49

OMG!! Spring has sprung here! I’m so happy 😀. Hope you’re all having lovely weather too.

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LittleBowSheep · 29/03/2024 15:14

We actually woke up to snow yesterday morning!! About 2inches of the damn stuff. Grrrr

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 29/03/2024 17:28

@LittleBowSheep wow! Whereabouts are you? Spring only lasted half a day, it’s raining now 🙈.

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 31/03/2024 11:02

Happy Easter everyone! Hope you’re all having sunshine like us ☀️🌺🎉.

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