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WhenSyap · 05/11/2022 12:33

I have a five month old and when my relationship broke down I moved back towards my family for support. I’ve had some support but not much and I desperately miss my old life back where I had a busier life and closer to my work (I’m still on maternity).

I have had to battle with ex to give me some maintenance, he dragged out cms by a paternity test and I’ve felt totally and utterly battered from all sides before and after pregnancy. I am absolutely broken. I feel stuck here now with a huge mortgage that I only moved to a year ago. I used to be successful, strong, hopeful. I just can’t cope anymore. Midwives know how I feel and I have mental health support but honestly I can’t stand my life and don’t know how much longer I can cope.

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 05/11/2022 13:15

Hello @WhenSyap we're so sorry to hear you're feeling this way. You're getting some excellent advice here from other MNers but we'd also like to share some links to real-life support that might be helpful:

Please take a look at our Mental Health resources Mental Health resources here. You can also contact the Samaritans or email them on [email protected]. Gingerbread, the charity for single parents, can offer you practical and emotional support.

Support from other Mumsnetters is great and we really hope you will be able to take some comfort from your fellow posters, but as other MNers will tell you, it's really a good idea to seek RL help and support as well.

We're going to move your thread to the Mental Health board shortly.

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