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disconnecteddrifter · 27/03/2021 12:26

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and having suicidal thoughts due to stresses at home on top of depression. I'm having counselling but high conflict at home. I am pretty sure I wont do anything but keep thinking about it and really need a break. Can I go to hospital?

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disconnecteddrifter · 27/03/2021 18:44

No I'm only scared of myself. I havent eaten or drunk anything today and it's not good

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maria1995xxx · 16/04/2021 16:40

@disconnecteddrifter

No I'm only scared of myself. I havent eaten or drunk anything today and it's not good
Hope everything is ok now? Randomly come across this thread xx
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disconnecteddrifter · 16/04/2021 17:07

Thanks for asking. I had a termination last week and things are much worse. I massiveky regret it and under care of the mental health team now.

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maria1995xxx · 16/04/2021 20:37

@disconnecteddrifter

Thanks for asking. I had a termination last week and things are much worse. I massiveky regret it and under care of the mental health team now.
I'm glad you are getting support. As a Muslim this the holy month of Ramadan, I will keep you in my prayers. How are you finding the support from the mental health team? Sorry to hear that you regret the termination, was this your first termination? Was it your decision to have the termination or did I discuss it with doctors etc? Don't give up , things will fall into place with time
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disconnecteddrifter · 16/04/2021 20:56

Thank you for yoir prayers I need everything I can get. It was my decision but I was never really sure. I just wanted to stress from my partner and his family to stop or to be able to cope with it without being sick. It made me feel like my life was over and i struggled to live. The hardest part is a lost a baby at 17 weeks only 6 months ago and now i think a lot of the feelings towards this pregnancy were tied up with my earlier loss. I am writing this kn case anyone else is faced with the same situation. I would do anything to reverse the clock and not have gone through with it.

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maria1995xxx · 16/04/2021 21:20

@disconnecteddrifter

Thank you for yoir prayers I need everything I can get. It was my decision but I was never really sure. I just wanted to stress from my partner and his family to stop or to be able to cope with it without being sick. It made me feel like my life was over and i struggled to live. The hardest part is a lost a baby at 17 weeks only 6 months ago and now i think a lot of the feelings towards this pregnancy were tied up with my earlier loss. I am writing this kn case anyone else is faced with the same situation. I would do anything to reverse the clock and not have gone through with it.
Sorry to hear this, sounds distressing and difficult. You've done the right thing by getting in touch with the MH team and please always remember that these forums can be used to express feelings too. Sometimes writing down your thoughts and keeping track of them in general on good and more challenging times might help too. try and get some rest tonight and now COVID rules have eased a bit maybe try going for a coffee or anywhere else where there is people so you don't feel alone xxx
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