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Brad55 · 24/12/2019 10:26

Hi All,

I’m 46 my wife 37 we have a lovely 5 year old boy and nice life or so I thought it’s been a difficult few months I didn’t have a job suffered a little bit with anxiety which is not easy for her I know that but on 13/12/19 I text her to ask if there was anyone else as felt there was a distance between us, and that was that BANG!!!!!!!!! She said she had been talking to someone else at gym and had too many feelings for him and couldn’t get us back Whooosh!!!!!!! My heart sank, she said we had drifted apart, very true but only married 30 months and she wants to throw it away, no reconciliation is available she doesnt want to give it a chance I’ve done all begging I can for 7 days since but now know I have to stop problem is we have to stay together till Boxing Day for our 5 year old then I’m off to my mums for least a week to get some time, I sat watching telly last night with her and she was constantly texting him while we build my sons toys for Xmas, gut wrenching painful, suicidal yes, what to do I don’t know but Xmas eve today worst one yet...

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HopeMumsnet · 24/12/2019 12:24

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