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Surviving Mental Health

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LovingFaith · 14/11/2019 13:46

Hi, Its my first time posting here.

Im a mother of two children, I have been diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety + depression. My children are living with their dad because I wasn’t coping after a mental breakdown.

Their father is in another country and my family here was not much help, I had to do what’s best for my children and provide them the care that they needed/deserved with their paternal side of family that I am grateful for.

It’s been a couple years and I’m just not coping. I hate myself for not being stronger back then. I regret making that decision. My children are living much better lives now but I’m dying everyday without them.
My family has not helped me and that has really broken me inside. I have a very big family.
My PTSD gets triggered every time I talk about it or wanna talk to them. I see them when I can afford to travel usually 1 or 2 times year as I’m not working although I’m looking for work & creative opportunities.

At this stage I really don’t know what to do. How do I carry on?
Is there a support group for people like me?

I’m waiting for my therapy to start again, I was seeing one on NHS but they said my case was too severe for only 8 sessions so I am being transferred to level 4 care which more long term as my situation is on-going I think.

In the meantime, I’m trying everything to keep going but I’m running out of strength.
I miss my children they’re getting big and it’s killing me inside.

Thank you for any insight that could help me keep going.

Xx

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FlissMumsnet · 15/11/2019 20:28

Hi There LovingFaith,

Thanks for your post - we're sorry we can't offer any specific advice but we very much hope things will look brighter for you soon.

You might want to consider posting in the Mental Health topic as well - you're likely to find understanding and support there.

All the best Flowers

MeTheCoolOne · 15/11/2019 20:45

I’m sorry you haven’t had any replies except for the MNHQ one and mine! Hopefully someone else will come along with some good advice.

I’m very sorry that you are struggling, It must be an extremely difficult situation to be in. It’s good that your kids are doing ok. I guess that must give you a teeny tiny bit of comfort even though I can imagine it must be so difficult for you not having them with you.
How old (roughly) are your kids and how do you keep in touch with them?

I really hope you get the treatment you need and that you MH improves.

I’ve just had a quick google and have found a couple of groups for mother’s who live apart from their children. MATCHMOTHERS There is also a Facebook group here
Have you already tried joining them and seeing if there are other people in a similar situation you could chat to. Not sure if that would be helpful or not.

Sorry I can’t give any proper advice. 💐💐

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