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Herbie88 · 09/07/2018 00:55

To look at me i have the perfect life. Reality is ive been planning my death for some time now. I have accrued massive debt and i cant pay a single thing back. Its all my own fault. I have 2 beautiful sons but i can barely provide for them. My hisband is useless. I done all the night feeds,nappies and baths. I do all the housework and cooking. But if one thing is wrong he goes mad. I cant tell him about the debt cos he will kill me. He has a bad temper and i dont agree with the he disciplines our children. His temper has now caused a rift in my family and him and my brother dont speak and that kills me. I feel i have no way out. If i make my death look accidental my life insurance will pay out and my family would have something that i camt give.

JoanneMumsnet · 09/07/2018 12:33

Hi Herbie88,

We are really sorry to hear you are feeling this way.

We hope you don't mind, but when these threads are flagged up to us we usually add a link to our Mental Health resources. You can also go to the Samaritans website, or email them on [email protected]. Support from other Mumsnetters is great and we really hope you will be able to take some comfort from your fellow posters, but it's a good idea to seek professional help and support as well.

We also have a webpage called How to get help with debt - it has links to the Step Change organisation and National Debtline, both of which can give you free, confidential advice on coping with debt.

We really hope the above links are useful and that things start looking less bleak for you soon. Flowers

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