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I'm an attention whore

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ChanseysEgg · 04/12/2016 11:47

I'm sure an attention whore. Have been all my life.

I need daily validation from a significant other that I'm worth a place on this planet. Validation in the form of hugs, kisses, I love yous, time.

I get jealous if someone or something takes my lovers attention away from me, even just for a day (a work commitment may be for a week or so).

I feel like a needy dog, humping his leg for attention. Waiting at the door for his return.

I take the slightest poor joke or mention of an ex, as a rejection.

I'm 34 and sick to death of being so needy. But don't know how to rectify this.

Being single feels equal to not existing.

I know this is unhealthy and springs from childhood neglect. But I cannot seem to overcome being an attention whore. I must be hell on earth to be in a relationship with.

I am a mother of two young children. I need to mature - and fast. But how?

FlissMumsnet · 05/12/2016 09:52

Hi ChanseysEgg,
We're so sorry to hear you're feeling this way. When we read posts like yours we usually add a link to our Mental Health resources - here. You can also go to the Samaritans' website here, or email them on [email protected].

Support from other Mumsnetters is great and we really hope you'll be able to take some comfort from them but as other posters have suggested, it's really a good idea to seek RL help as well.

We also like to remind everyone never to give more of themselves to another poster, emotionally or financially, than they can afford to spare.

We hope things seem a lot brighter for you soon. We've moved your thread across to Mental Health as we think that's the best place for you to find support.

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