In the middle of a horrible divorce. Ex is wants us out of the house. Has been doing all sorts of financial Armageddon type things. I've been sensible but now looks like he's going to get his way and I'm the one who has to pick up the pieces and raise the kids and move home school job. I am on the verge of giving up the boys and letting him sort them out. Fed up of fighting for a life I don't even want. Is that so bad to just let him have them. I don't want any of this crap anymore.