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Sertraline and any other AD's Support Thread Part 2

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PackItInNow · 07/12/2012 13:48

Just a continuation from the original thread, which is due to finish soon. Anyone and everyone needing some kind words, and hand-holding, are more than welcome Smile.

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Fluffydressinggown · 26/12/2012 15:08

Hello :) Happy Christmas to everyone.

I am at my parents and have survived! We went sales shopping today which was nice. Trying not to think about January, feels too scary.

I hope everyone is feeling ok and has had a nice Christmas.

RumoursOfAWhiteChristmas · 26/12/2012 16:40

Hi everyone, hope you all had a nice Christmas.
I'm feeling a bit like you blackcat, a bit lost. I've been taking the sertraline for a week now and really hope they start kicking soon.

PackItInNow · 26/12/2012 17:31

Hi everyone, hope you all survived Christmas Grin. TBH, I think there's a bit of a climax at Christmas. Once Christmas dinner is done with, it all seem like it's all over for another year. Saying that, I've just been out and bought all of next year's Xmas pressies and cards. I'll start wrapping them tonight and have them all done by the 1st week in January. After that, I'll hit the january sales for birthday pressies and some other bits for throughout the year.

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PackItInNow · 26/12/2012 17:34

I have to admit, I like to be super-organised so I have extra time to concentrate on other things.

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HeartOfDixie · 26/12/2012 18:09

Feeling lost too. Now I don't have to hold it together not sure what to do with myself.

PackItInNow · 26/12/2012 19:59

Every time I got anxious about going out to the January sales, I ask myself what would happen. It was then I realised that I was getting anxious over a perceived threat that, in all likelyhood, wouldn't happen. That's what changed me from being very anxious about leaving the house, to a person who was able to go anywhere and not have much bother.

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PackItInNow · 26/12/2012 20:01

This is the anti-climax part of Christmas because there was all that running about looking for presents for our loved ones. Now that it's all over, the next best thing is the mad rush and buzz of the January sales.

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PackItInNow · 26/12/2012 20:02

Yes

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PackItInNow · 26/12/2012 20:03

Bugger. It didn't work Grin.

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PackItInNow · 26/12/2012 20:06

ANyway ladies, I am feeling very drowsy now, so will bid u goodnight and hope you all sleep well tonight Smile.

Take care.

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uptothestars · 26/12/2012 20:21

Mehh...work has driven me mad today. The joy of being in retail!

VicarInaTutuDrankSantasSherry · 26/12/2012 20:57

evening everyone.
hope you all had a lovely xmas day. We had visitors again today and also had one of DS friends round who got nada for xmas - so been out today to buy him some goodies. he stayed along with my visitors for some food, booze and board games so house feels empty now everyones gone - DH is back to work tomorrow so in bed, DD buggered off and DS has gone to see his friend back home.

im trying desperately hard not to think about work. ive got to send my sick note in (a week late with it Blush) so will try and get that sorted tomorrow. might have a pj day tomorrow....feel in need of one.

PackItInNow · 27/12/2012 12:58

Hi Vicar, how's things with you? That was lovely of you to buy a few pressies for your DS's pal. I don't understand how a parent wouldn't get their DC pressies for Xmas. Even if they were skint, they should be able to spare a quid for a selection box or a wee toy from Poundland or something.

So sad for all those wee children who got absolutely nothing for Christmas Sad. Makes me want to cry for the poor wee kids.

I was thinking of doing something for a few of the lonely elderly people in the estate I live in. Something like getting them to my place for Xmas dinner and a bit of warmth. Either that or I'll plate up some Xmas dinner and deliver it to their houses with a couple of those sleeved fleece blankets or slankets as I think they're called. I'm also going to batch cook things like stew, soup and mild curries for the folk.

Will be back later good people, got to go shopping for more pressies. I've just decided to get more Grin.

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PackItInNow · 27/12/2012 17:36

Back again. Bit of a strange one today as there was only a handful of people in Tesco, Boots and M&S today. But there was the usual folk standing in the middle of a narrow aisle gossiping. Asked one of the people if I could squeeze past them and they gave me the filtiest look that I've seen in years.

So I asked them what I had done to warrant the look and she said "We were having a conversation and you just go barging past us". Letting out a big sigh and told her "I didn't go 'barging' past you, I asked if I could squeeze past, which meant that you only had to move a wee inch or so, so I could get by". She then bitched at me saying "You've got no fucking manners", so I finally said to her "If you want to bloody-well socialise, then there's a pub across the road", and in a defensive tone DD piped up "Don't you dare speak to my mummy like that you ignorant person" Grin.

I was trying not to laugh and I could see that the rest of her group were trying not to as well. One of her group eventually pointed out that she was being rather nasty, which was unwarranted. She shot a filthy look at the person, but I didn't wait around to get more dog's abuse.

Ah well, the joys of post-Christmas sales Grin. Luckily I had dynamite DD with me. I have to admit, DD has the patience of a saint, but even at 6yo, she can verbally slap down anyone who crosses her.

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PackItInNow · 27/12/2012 18:03

Stars, how was your day today? Have you been in work and driven mad by the customers or have you had a day off? I hope you had a day off just to rest your brain from a ll the post-Christmas palaver.

It feels like there's a good bit of the atmosphere gone, but there still is a buzz of excitement, it's just not the same type of atmosphere.

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VicarInaTutuDrankSantasSherry · 27/12/2012 19:19

well done you packit for standing up to such rudeness and good on your DD too!

ive had a roughish day here - im still in pjs....could not get out of bed this morning at all.

then just to ice the cake work rang....just "seeing how you are" my arse....its was old supervisor who is obviously back in charge, i just told him i had a sick note for a month and that id send it in. He was nice on the face of it but bloody hell, i really dont think i want to go back. i then spent the afternoon worrying about that all over again....

DH put "made in dagenham" on and made me watch it to take my mind off bloody work....

PackItInNow · 27/12/2012 19:36

I have some jokes to tell that might cheer someone up on the thread. They're a bit daft, but still, anything to put a smile on someone's face. Here goes.......

*What do you call a fish with no eyes? A Fsh
*What do you get if you cross a pitbull and a labrador? A dog who chews your leg off and then runs for help?.
*Did you hear about the constipated mathmatician? He worked it out with a pencil.

These are just a few of the jokes I know from my high school years (18yrs ago). I hope they brought a smile to your faces Smile

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PackItInNow · 27/12/2012 19:50

Hi Vicar. I was watching Made in Dagenham a few weeks ago. I thought it was alright. I have to admit that I thought it wasn't going to be a great movie, but IMHO, I found it didn't make me feel anything for it.

Saying that, I'm a comedy person, but it's the stupid, daft comedies I like. The Pacifier with Vin Diesel is one of my favourites.

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PackItInNow · 27/12/2012 19:54

I didn't think it Made in Dagenham was boring, but it just didn't stir up any feelings.

Don't worry about having a PJ day, but I'm wondering if your AD's are working if you're still feeling the odd 'can't get out of bed' kind of day. Might be worthwhile seeing your GP for some reassurance or a change of AD if needed.

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uptothestars · 27/12/2012 21:00

Been at work...not off til Monday now. Can't wait for my hours to go back to normal. Could do with a pj day. Feel like a need a huge lie in and a chill out. Everything's just so crazy at this time of year.
On the plus side I've got new year off...just not made any plans. Really not feeling it.
Got a hundred and one things to get done but no energy to do them.

How is everyone else?

VicarInaTutuDrankSantasSherry · 27/12/2012 21:13

pack film was ok, just took my mind off work for an hour or so! liking the jokes....my fave joke ever is
"how does an elephant ask for a bun"

"can i have a bun please?"
had me in stitches.....silly i know but i loved it. Dsis always made me laugh with it. xmas is hard without her.

uptothestars im okish....new year is always funny for me....i always feel like we should be doing something but we never seem to manage it.

anyway must try to get out to supermarket tomorrow if nothing else.

uptothestars · 27/12/2012 21:44

Vicar..I desperately need to go to the supermarket. It just feels like a mammoth task. I think I can put it off til at least Monday though. I only have tomorrow night to feed the kids, then they're at their dads Saturday night and we're at my mums for tea on Sunday.

Have you thought about doing it online? If it seems an impossibility to go out? Or are you kind of needing to get out?

VicarInaTutuDrankSantasSherry · 27/12/2012 21:48

i have no need or desire to go out at all.....but i dont really need enough for an online shop either. i normally do it online tbh....but i just need to pick up a few bits really.

i wonder if dh will go for me.....if not i will drag him with me. i intend to be in and out.

i dont think my ADs are working very well if im honest.

uptothestars · 27/12/2012 21:57

Definitely drag dh with you. It will do you good...plus you could get yourself some little treats!

Are you due to see your GP? If not would be a good idea to make an appointment. My ad's did nothing for me for a long time. I tried a couple of different ones too.
Now, after trying to come off them, I realise I can't function that great without them. Need to ring docs for a repeat prescription, am hoping He will just give me one without me having to see him.

Probs not

VicarInaTutuDrankSantasSherry · 27/12/2012 22:19

im seeing gp on monday. i will talk to her. im scared to up the dose in case it makes me even more sleepy....i could sleep for england at the minute and ive no idea how the hell im ever going to work nights again....