My husband and I are solid and we survived toddler twins during lockdown, they are now 8 years old. We’ve both managed to get promotions and our jobs are as solid. I’ve been thinking about another for a while. Are we crazy? I don’t feel it’s hormones because I’ve had this feeling for around 2 years (toxic job situation made it difficult). I would love a big family but I’m scared to ruin what we have.